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Mott Marvin Kornicki, Miami Notary & Apostille 786-229-7999 (Waterway Realtors® • Notary Public & Apostille)

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Bob "RealMan" Timm
Ward County Notary Services - Minot, ND
Owner of Ward Co Notary Services retired RE Broker

Mott, you changed your entire question, some of us are wondering how many personalities you have

Nov 03, 2019 06:28 PM
Rainmaker
4,582,184
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

I gotta be me. I hear everyone else is taken.

Nov 03, 2019 11:54 PM
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Mimi Foster
Falcon Property Company - Colorado Springs, CO
Voted Colorado Springs Best Realtor

As a human, I am kind and considerate, helpful and sympathetic, generous and thoughtful . . . but my snark side comes out when people on this forum are "in your face," not really wanting to know things but wanting to tell you how it should be. 

Then my humorous and extremely honest side comes out . . . never cruelly, merely to say . . . Really?

From your previous posts and questions, it appears that you are in a life crisis. For that I am truly sorry. I'm not sure how we (as a group) can help you with what you're going thru. But kindness begets kindness. If there is something we can do, please let us know. 

Nov 03, 2019 08:54 PM
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5,254,035
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Mott, with me, what you see is what you get - no matter who you are, I'm me! 

And I will also add, I think what you see is what you get with others too. Just sayin!

Nov 03, 2019 08:53 PM
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Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

I am very real.

Nov 03, 2019 06:52 PM
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

What is an AR persona? Never met one, myself. As Popeye would say "I yam what I yam."

Nov 04, 2019 03:48 AM
Rainmaker
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Doug Dawes
Keller Williams Evolution - 447 Boston Street, Suite #5, Topsfield, MA - Topsfield, MA
Your Personal Realtor®

It is the one and only me.

Nov 04, 2019 02:45 AM
Rainmaker
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Tom Bailey
Margaret Rudd & Associates Inc. - Oak Island, NC

I am too old to be anybody else!

Nov 04, 2019 01:38 AM
Rainmaker
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Pete Xavier
Investments to Luxury - Pacific Palisades, CA
Outstanding Agent Referrals-Nationwide

It's an eminence front. 

Nov 03, 2019 07:11 PM
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Inna Ivchenko
Barcode Properties - Encino, CA
Realtor® • GRI • HAFA • PSC Calabasas CA

I avoid creating any personas and I know exactly what you mean:) It is not just my thing. I'm very busy these days, so i usually jump in for a few minutes to say Hello to all since i'm a part of this community for so many years and it is great to see the familiar faces:)

Gaining points lost its meaning long time ago, I simply choose few questions that sound interesting and remain... just me:) 

Nov 03, 2019 10:47 PM
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Rose Mary Justice
Synergy Realty Pros - Dandridge, TN
Synergy Realty Pros

It is me in the flesh.  I hope I am never rude to anyone.  

Nov 03, 2019 07:20 PM
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Candice A. Donofrio
Next Wave RE Investments LLC Bullhead City AZ Commercial RE Broker - Fort Mohave, AZ
928-201-4BHC (4242) call/text

Okay. It would be great if everybody was elegantly authentic, and most here are.. But rules.of engagement go both ways. Don't post too many questions in a row, watch for duplicates, and don't change your question after it's been answered. If it needs to be removed, delete it.
PS I am authentically certifiable and will escalate subject to the moon phases!

Nov 04, 2019 04:47 AM
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Diana Zaccaro Broker Associate
ZOOM Realty Group - Cocoa Beach, FL
"The Accidental Blogger" Cocoa Beach, Florida

I am genuine and have met or talked with many of the members over the years. I can attest that they are genuine as well.

Nov 03, 2019 09:01 PM
Rainmaker
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Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Mott, 

In the words of Popeye, I am what I am.  A

Nov 03, 2019 08:29 PM
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Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

I am the same in the AR community as I am anywhere.  If I don't have anything nice to say I just keep my thoughts and opinions to myself. I strive to be polite and considerate yet acknowledge that some people may feel I am not that. At the end of the day, I am true to myself. I am honest in my words and deeds. 

Nov 04, 2019 07:11 AM
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Carla Freund
Keller Williams Preferred Realty - Raleigh, NC
NC Real Estate Transition & Relocation 919-602-848

I try very hard to give the same answer I'd give if I were face to face. I find people say things on social media in general they would never say in front of a person. I do think there are times sincerity and tone get lost in written messages. Just keep on going.

Nov 04, 2019 04:14 AM
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Peter Testa
Nationwide Homes - Danbury, CT
PETER TESTA

Most people on AR are real helpful but I have seen some people asking questions get roasted (and vice versa!). Some people have Grande Huevos behind a keyboard. 

Nov 04, 2019 08:23 AM
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Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

I never try to be rude or inconsiderate....however, on occasion, it just happens....not intentionally....we all have our weak moments.... I surely try to control mine..... and I never want to hurt anyone's feelings.... nor would I want mine to be beat up!!!

Nov 04, 2019 07:08 AM
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Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

I'm me. Whatever I write in ActiveRain is what I write elsewhere. Or how I act elsewhere. 

Nov 04, 2019 05:19 AM
Rainmaker
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Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Chicago, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

What I feel at the time is what you get! Don't wear hats and only occasionally T-shirts!

Nov 04, 2019 03:56 AM
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Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

As you travel through life and notice things ask this question: What does that mean to me? What you will find is the meaning behind your experience

Nov 04, 2019 06:22 AM
Rainmaker
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Richard Weeks
Dallas, TX
REALTOR®, Broker

Just use the golden rule.

Nov 04, 2019 05:10 AM
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Lyn Sims
Schaumburg, IL
Real Estate Broker Retired

I've never seen a condescending answer here recently in the Q's. I think that many people don't like what others are saying so they find it 'offensive'. Maybe it's the plain ole' truth.

In fact, your question in itself is actually pretty rude & in your face. It's aggressive & trying to lash out. I'm here to offer advice/help & that's it. 

'MANY' probably means me & I find that inclusion offensive. I'm going to answer how I want.

Nov 04, 2019 05:07 AM
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Annette Lawrence , Palm Harbor, FL 727-420-4041
ReMax Realtec Group - Palm Harbor, FL
Making FLORIDA Real Estate EZ

I have a different purpose on AR than when I pressing the flesh.

Kissing babies may not align well with that purpose.

Nov 04, 2019 04:36 AM
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Wayne Zuhl
Remax First Realty II - Cranford, NJ
The Last Name You'll Ever Need in Real Estate

I don't use a persona. "I yam what I yam." 

Having said that, there are plety of personas in the rain that I have no interest in developing a relationship with - the condescending, ridiculing, rude people. They know who they are :)

Nov 04, 2019 02:09 PM
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Ryan Huggins - Thousand Oaks, CA
https://HugginsHomes.com - Thousand Oaks, CA
Residential Real Estate and Investment Properties

If someone shows they can't be trusted, say by changing a question after it's been answered, then the untrusting side comes out of many people.

Nov 04, 2019 09:52 AM
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Valeria Mola
SIB Realty - Miami, Sunny Isles Beach - Sunny Isles Beach, FL
305-607-0709 SIB Realty Condos for Sale and Rent

Interesting.

Nov 04, 2019 07:09 PM
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Evelina Tsigelnitskaya
SIB Realty - Sunny Isles Beach, FL

I have no comments, Mott.

Nov 04, 2019 06:25 PM
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John Juarez
The Medford Real Estate Team - Fremont, CA
ePRO, SRES, GRI, PMN

I try not to offend even when I say what I believe.

Nov 04, 2019 04:38 PM
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Anthony Acosta - ALLATLANTAcondos.com
Harry Norman, REALTORS® - Atlanta, GA
Associate Broker

What you see is what you get.

Nov 04, 2019 04:08 PM
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Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

I don't think I come across rude.....

Nov 11, 2019 02:34 PM
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Eve Alexander
Buyers Broker of Florida - Tampa, FL
Exclusively Representing ONLY Tampa Home Buyers

I don't have a persona...I am always me.

However, I have decided that too many AR people let their crazy insecurities come out when they are responding to a question or a blog.  Just because they did not know something does not mean it is not accurate.

Commenters need to read the whole thing carefully and then go look it up so they can see if they are wrong before they post something that is an embarassment to themslves.

Eve

 

Nov 05, 2019 04:53 AM