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Bob "RealMan" Timm, Owner of Ward Co Notary Services retired RE Broker (Ward County Notary Services)

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Dave Halpern
Dave Halpern Real Estate Agent, Inc., Louisville, KY (502) 664-7827 - Louisville, KY
Louisville Short Sale Expert

The values you instilled in her before she left the nest.

Jul 24, 2018 06:48 AM
Rainmaker
7,863,209
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Give her money or a credit card. She will know more about what she needs or wants after she gets there.

Jul 24, 2018 07:09 AM
Rainmaker
472,114
JoAnn Moore
The Mortgage Market of Delaware - Georgetown, DE
Home Loans in Delaware

A "Care package" in a basket. Then send the care packages on a consistent basis. Our daughter loved receiving these during her Freshman year. 

Jul 24, 2018 06:57 AM
Rainmaker
1,553,330
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets
Big Block Realty 858.232.8722 - La Jolla, CA
CEO of Vision Drive Realty - Coastal San Diego

I gave my son a collection of all the books I wish I'd read 20 years sooner. I also gave him some cash. Guess which one got the bigger reaction?

Jul 24, 2018 08:09 AM
Rainmaker
3,627,072
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Pepper spray or have her attend a concealed carry class and have Mr. Glock keep her company

Jul 24, 2018 07:56 AM
Rainmaker
1,153,794
Kevin J. May
Florida Supreme Realty - Hobe Sound, FL
Serving the Treasure & Paradise Coasts of Florida

Do yourself a favor and get her a condo while she's there. You won't regret it.

Jul 24, 2018 07:07 AM
Rainmaker
5,583,328
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

I like Fred Griffin 's thought.... a cell phone and, as you said, on your plan to not ever run out of minutes.... 

Jul 24, 2018 06:59 AM
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Fred Griffin Florida Real Estate
Fred Griffin Real Estate - Tallahassee, FL
Licensed Florida Real Estate Broker

        A cell phone with your number on speed dial.   There are times when she is going to need "Daddy".  

Jul 24, 2018 06:52 AM
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4,900,966
Richard Weeks
Dallas, TX
REALTOR®, Broker

A microwave

 

Jul 24, 2018 06:47 AM
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Surprise her with a gift basket with a heartfelt card in the bottom...

Fill it with her favorite things and don't let her see it/open it until you leave. 

Of course, once a month, send her a care package too!

Jul 24, 2018 07:13 AM
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4,582,284
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Maybe cash.

Jul 24, 2018 07:50 AM
Rainmaker
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Candice A. Donofrio
Next Wave RE Investments LLC Bullhead City AZ Commercial RE Broker - Fort Mohave, AZ
928-201-4BHC (4242) call/text

I could be a real smart-ass here and say Visine, alcohol & lots of condoms, but let's just say love, support and encouragement. And I'm with Weeks on the microwave.

Jul 24, 2018 07:32 AM
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509,449
Susie Kay
Ultra Real Estate Dallas Fort Worth - Plano, TX
North Dallas Specialist

An alarm clock or more than one alarm clocks especially if you have been her alarm clock in high school :)

Jul 24, 2018 09:11 AM
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2,400,161
Bob "RealMan" Timm
Ward County Notary Services - Minot, ND
Owner of Ward Co Notary Services retired RE Broker

What's that Michael Jacobs ??? Actually between her being in the Guard and the savings account I set up when she was born we should be in great shape.

Jul 24, 2018 08:23 AM
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Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Your never-ending love and support.  Send her a text message letting her know that you are only a call or a text away if /when she needs you for anything.  

Jul 24, 2018 08:21 AM
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1,846,901
Lyn Sims
Schaumburg, IL
Real Estate Broker Retired

I've seen alot of Ipads getting bought. I'm sure you were hoping for cheaper.

Came back to answer on this one - set up emergency money. Walmart has where you can pick up cash at every store location in case something happens. Checks won't help sometimes in an emergency. Very cheap peace of mind. Store to store it's called.

Jul 24, 2018 08:17 AM
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Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

A couple nice sets of sheets, comforter, towels, etc.  And, a monthly care package as recommended by JoAnn and Debe.

Jul 24, 2018 08:00 AM
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564,494
Maria Sapio
Keller Williams of Central PA - Carlisle, PA
Real Estate Agent- Carlisle, PA. Mariasapio.com

A personal note written by you.  She may have moments of feeling lonely (even if she's outgoing and friendly, she is human and we all feel out of sorts sometimes) and a letter of love and encouragement from a caring dad can mean the world during those moments!

Jul 24, 2018 09:08 AM
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1,506,013
Ryan Huggins - Thousand Oaks, CA
https://HugginsHomes.com - Thousand Oaks, CA
Residential Real Estate and Investment Properties

A "One Mistake Free" card.  No judgements, no lectures, just help.

Jul 24, 2018 09:06 AM
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Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

Had a lot of kids in dorms, and spent some time in them myself a million years ago, but have never heard of a dorm gift.

Just send your love, that is the most important gift.

Wishing her all the best in this next phase of life.

 

 

Jul 24, 2018 08:37 AM
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2,071,025
Evelina Tsigelnitskaya
SIB Realty - Sunny Isles Beach, FL

Phone case with the note:"Always answer my call".  Was kidding and not kidding. 

Knowing your daughter has joined the Air Force National Guard, give her something from home - painting, picture, something she can look at every day and have warm feeling and tiny tiny note :"I love you, I am proud of you."

 

Jul 24, 2018 08:30 PM
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Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

In Seeking Cupid Don't Be Stupid book....Over 100 chapers girl/woman centered chapters on the feminine mystique. All subjects covered. 

Jul 24, 2018 11:20 AM
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Kasey & John Boles
Jon Gosche Real Estate, LLC - BoiseMeridianRealEstate.com - Boise, ID
Boise & Meridian, ID Ada/Canyon/Gem/Boise Counties

Mini Fridge, microwave, coffee pot, lots of coffee, a picture of the family for the wall. -K

Jul 24, 2018 08:36 AM
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Dave Martin (703) 585-4687
Fairfax Realty - Fairfax, VA
Making Realty Dreams a Reality #WeWillGetYouHome

Well most dorm rooms have very little space to work with so keep that in mind.

  1. A mini fridge is pretty much a must have
  2. mini coffee maker or even a K Cup type if so inclined but I prefer drip coffee
  3. small convection/microwave oven
  4. Closet organizer, space saving hangers etc
  5. small circular fan — If her Dorm Room gets as hot as many its a must have

Or get her everything ;-) Bob "RealMan" Timm 

Jul 30, 2018 02:46 PM
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Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Gift cards to fast food restaurants

 

Jul 30, 2018 12:54 PM
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Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

I think Dave's answer is priceless!

Jul 29, 2018 07:19 AM
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William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

Ear Plugs!

Jul 26, 2018 09:06 PM
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Gabe Sanders
Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales - Stuart, FL
Stuart Florida Real Estate

Your love, phone number and a steady stream of cash!  

Jul 25, 2018 06:34 AM
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Tony and Suzanne Marriott, Associate Brokers
Serving the Greater Phoenix and Scottsdale Metropolitan Area - Scottsdale, AZ
Haven Express @ Keller Williams Arizona Realty

Parked and reading...

Jul 25, 2018 05:20 AM
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Brenda Mayette
Miranda Real Estate Group, Inc. - Glenville, NY
Getting results w/ knowledge & know-how!

Preloaded gift card for Uber or Lyft & a few rolls of quarters for laundry.  Congratulations & hang on tightly -- college goes by SO quickly!!! 

Jul 25, 2018 05:05 AM
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Scott Godzyk
Godzyk Real Estate Services - Manchester, NH
One of the Manchester NH's area Leading Agents

My daughter will be heading to college as well. I am happy to have been able to take her shopping for dorm items. The one tip i got was get a memory foam mattress pad as the beds are horrible. She will thank you every night and morning for a good sleep.  Hers was a XL twin

 

Jul 25, 2018 04:47 AM
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Gita Bantwal
RE/MAX Centre Realtors - Warwick, PA
REALTOR,ABR,CRS,SRES,GRI - Bucks County & Philadel

A care package each month

Jul 25, 2018 04:26 AM
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Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Bob "RealMan" Timm - a few good suggestions here.

Jul 24, 2018 11:02 PM
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Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

A year's supply of popcorn and ramen noodles.

Jul 24, 2018 08:10 PM
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Jennifer Mackay
Counts Real Estate Group, Inc. - Panama City, FL
Your Bay County Florida Realtor 850.774.6582

Dave Halpern has my vote - you've done your best now it's time to let her not be a millenial LOL

Jul 24, 2018 03:53 PM
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Caroline Gerardo
Licensed in 20 states - Newport Beach, CA
C. G. Barbeau the Loan Lady nmls 324982

Air popcorn popper, extra twin long sheets, wait until you see her bed but containers that fit exactly under with lids, snacks to share, or a string of sparkle lights.

On another note- one of those loud panic alarms that goes on a key chain

Jul 24, 2018 12:50 PM
Rainmaker
5,239,029
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Chicago, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Give her a few extra bucks for things that come up the first few weeks! They always do!

Jul 24, 2018 12:21 PM
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Lynnea Miller
Bend Premier Real Estate - Bend, OR
Premier Real Estate Service in Central Oregon

Our children loved care packages periodically sent throughout the year. Peanut butter and crackers were a great hit.

Jul 24, 2018 11:52 AM
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Olga Simoncelli
Veritas Prime, LLC dba Veritas Prime Real Estate - New Fairfield, CT
CONSULTANT, Real Estate Services & Risk Management

Gift card to Bed, Bath&Beyond or Target - invaluable; will take care of all her dorm needs. Later, send her a plane ticket home for a nice visit (or gas money if she's driving).

Jul 24, 2018 11:25 AM
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

I'd get her a gorgeous leather tote bag (but then I do collect bags). But it's been so long ago for us, I don't know what goes on in dorms these days. Three of our grandkids are already graduated from college and they were boys so they are not interested in the same things as girls. 

Jul 24, 2018 10:55 AM
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Annette Lawrence , Palm Harbor, FL 727-420-4041
ReMax Realtec Group - Palm Harbor, FL
Making FLORIDA Real Estate EZ

"....she has joined the Air Force National Guard and they will not only be paying for her schooling but she will also be getting a nice monthly wage as well..."

English translation: "Who needs Daddy now?"

Now is the time to take a look at those Dinner Table Journals you've been keeping since she was in 4th grade. What were the transformation moments she shared.....even is at a young age they were not recognized as such. 

So get plaques or T's with those reminders.

Never Give UP

Eat Clean. Train Dirty

DO IT or DO shIT which ever works.

You Don't Know

This to shall pass

I am a miracle!

Choose kindness

Choose LIFE. My Mother did.

This will not only serve as an encouragment but a reminder of who has always been and will always be ready to sojourn with her.

And of course a note of acknowledge (refer to Dinner Table Journal) within that care package goes a LONG way.

Jul 24, 2018 10:08 AM
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1,241,754
Sam Shueh
(408) 425-1601 - San Jose, CA
mba, cdpe, reopro, pe

probably a credit card. Teach her the value suggest max cap like $5K. Have her pay 1/2 back to get experience....

The young ones probably like Apple $, Wechat $....

Jul 24, 2018 08:55 AM