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Mona Gersky, GRI,IMSD-Taking the mystery out of real estate. (MoonDancer Realty, Dillsboro,NC)

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Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
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I just keep my mouth shut. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion (no matter how wrong they might be).

Sep 06, 2015 11:23 PM
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Susan Emo
Sotheby's International Realty Canada - Brokerage - Kingston, ON
Kingston and the 1000 Islands Area

One more reason for taking your own vehicles!

Sep 07, 2015 12:34 AM
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Michael Setunsky
Woodbridge, VA
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Mona Gersky I would keep my mouth shut and start discussing the property we are going to view.

Sep 06, 2015 11:38 PM
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Debbie Gartner
The Flooring Girl - White Plains, NY
The Flooring Girl & Blog Stylist -Dynamo Marketers

If it's political, I generally let it go...I know that around half the people disagree w/ me.  I try to avoid politics like the plague.

Now, if it was something else (e.g. being a racist or something else truly offensive like that, then I'd probably reconsider having them as clients).

Sep 06, 2015 11:16 PM
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Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets
Big Block Realty 858.232.8722 - La Jolla, CA
CEO of Vision Drive Realty - Coastal San Diego

We're paid to deliver the goods in Real Estate, not politics, sex, religion nor social issues. Mouth shut and focus on homes is my policy. When people try to engage me, I smile and say "I charge $1,000/per hour for my political opinion and it's a long one, but showing you homes is free, which do you prefer I do today?" They typically laugh and say they understand and drop it. Thankfully it doesn't come up much.

Sep 07, 2015 01:31 AM
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Kevin J. May
Florida Supreme Realty - Hobe Sound, FL
Serving the Treasure & Paradise Coasts of Florida

Politically I wouldn't engage the conversation but touch a moral chord and it's possible they'd be walking. The easy solution is to take separate vehicles.  

Sep 06, 2015 11:45 PM
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Raymond E. Camp
Ontario, NY

I think they call it biting ones tongue and hope it does not bleed!

Sep 06, 2015 11:15 PM
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Curtis Evans
Cabin Realty LLC/ USA, Licensed in Louisiana - Golden Meadow, LA

Silence in this case is very Golden !!

Sep 07, 2015 01:31 AM
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Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

I too keep my mouth shut, politics do not belong in a real estate transactions, and clients do not usually care how we feel.

Sep 07, 2015 01:29 AM
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Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Nina Hollander provided the advice you need.

Keep quiet and focus on the real estate.

Sep 06, 2015 11:48 PM
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Ryan Huggins - Thousand Oaks, CA
https://HugginsHomes.com - Thousand Oaks, CA
Residential Real Estate and Investment Properties

I keep my mouth shut!  Politics, religion and "exes" have no place in a business environment.  You don't want to lose a several grand over a comment, especially after spending three days with them!

Sep 07, 2015 02:31 PM
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Hella M. Rothwell, Broker/Realtor®
Carmel by the Sea, CA
Rothwell Realty Inc. CA#01968433 Carmel-by-the-Sea

At least half of the time I'm somewhere or with someone who does not hold my beliefs. I never go there except with close friends. When I am with clients? Keep my mouth shut. Always.

Sep 07, 2015 08:50 AM
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Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
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I continue to say nothing.  

Sep 07, 2015 04:55 AM
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Sandy Padula & Norm Padula, JD, GRI
HomeSmart Realty West & Florida Realty Investments - , CA
Presence, Persistence & Perseverance

That Nina Hollander is so smart

Sep 07, 2015 03:14 AM
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Stefan Winter
Real Estate in IL & NV | Owner of Real Estate Web Tech | Daily Vlogger - Las Vegas, NV
Owner - Winter Group & Real Estate Web Tech

Just keep on showing them houses without saying anything about it. 

Sep 07, 2015 02:32 AM
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Jill Murty, Realtor - Orange County, CA
Movoto - Laguna Niguel, CA

I do like to say "We'll never agree unless you change your mind." But usually not in client situations.  

If the client wants to push the political talk, say you do not discuss politics or that your broker prohibits political talk on the job.  Then get through the transaction as quickly as you can.

If that's not effective, refer to Annette Lawrence , Palm Harbor, FL 727-420-4041's list.

Kevin J. May's suggestion of separate vehicles wI'll keep you separate from the client, which would be beneficial in your situation.

Sep 07, 2015 01:05 AM
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Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Mona,

Everyone is entitled to their views, even if they disagree with me.  We are here to sell real estate, not our politics.  A

Sep 07, 2015 12:49 AM
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Cindy Davis
SD Home Source Realty - San Diego, CA

I've had this happen and I keep my mouth shut.

Sep 07, 2015 12:40 AM
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Annette Lawrence , Palm Harbor, FL 727-420-4041
ReMax Realtec Group - Palm Harbor, FL
Making FLORIDA Real Estate EZ

Listen but say nothing.

If you must say something it should be confined to "I hear you."

In the end you must decide who is going to be their future neighbor. If it's your farm area, you just might have a problem brewing.

Be aware, I would do none of the above. Instead I would engage them in dialog about the community and socieity that will prove most benefical to those who live there. It is possible, these buyers will not be fully comfortable or able to achieve a lifestyle of thriving success here. Then I pull out the  name of agents on 'The List."

Sep 06, 2015 11:30 PM
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Gita Bantwal
RE/MAX Centre Realtors - Warwick, PA
REALTOR,ABR,CRS,SRES,GRI - Bucks County & Philadel

I agree with Debbie's answer. I would do the same.

Sep 06, 2015 11:18 PM
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Jeff Pearl
RE/MAX Distinctive / LIC in VA - Lovettsville, VA
Full Service Full Time Realtor

They are entitled to their opinions and beliefs. Ignore theem and focus on real estate.

Sep 07, 2015 06:03 AM
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Kathleen Luiten
Resort and Second-Home Specialist - Princeville, HI
Kauai Luxury Ocean Home Sales

I ignore it. I'm working not bonding (or arguing) with friends.

Sep 07, 2015 05:23 AM
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Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

I keep my thoughts to myself, I think it is important to separate business from personal convictions as long as I'm not doing something unethical.

Sep 07, 2015 04:09 AM
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Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Mona Gersky just say, I am not interested in discussing politics - lets focus on MOST IMPORTANT thing for you, Mrs. & Mr. Buyer - your home!

Sep 07, 2015 01:54 AM
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Marco Giancola
Beachfront Realty - Miami Beach, FL
Realtor (305)608-1922, Miami Beach Florida

Hi Mona-it is hard for me to keep quite but my immediate silence usually makes them change the subject without me having too.

Sep 07, 2015 01:00 AM
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Amanda Christiansen
Christiansen Group Realty (260)704-0843 - Fort Wayne, IN
Christiansen Group Realty

They are your clients, not your friends.  They hired you to do a job.  I would just keep it as business as possible.  Talk about an awkward situation!  

What did you do?

Sep 07, 2015 01:00 AM
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The Woodland Team of Texas
The Woodland Companies - Austin, TX
Land Specialists

Pull over and make them walk.

Jan 04, 2019 11:17 PM
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Marcia Lahmers
Jeromesville, OH

This kinda happened to me a week ago.  Not on the politics level but on a different level.  I live and sell in the Midwest and farm with my family.  We own and operate a true family farm.  So when showing my big city clients a farm house with a soybean field as a backdrop, I proceeded to explain how the soybeans grown and are harvested when they inquired.  They were very appreciative for the first hand info.  Then they asked me about GMO's.  Well soon after that subject came up I could see that they were dead set against GMO's.  So rather then debating I politely said " how about we agree to disagree?"   They totally respected that comment and we proceeded on the property search.  

So back to the voicing opinions subject.....yes I agree an agent must bite his/her tongue quite often.  But if tactfully voiced, we don't have to be a blank zombie to our clients.  But rather a thoughtful interesting agent is my approach.

 

Sep 12, 2015 10:06 PM
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Richard Weeks
Dallas, TX
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I just look on past it.

Sep 07, 2015 11:10 PM
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Patricia Kennedy
RLAH@properties - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

Mona, they are just buyers.  I keep my mouth shut.  A while back I broke up with a boy friend because I couldn't stomach his politics, but with clients, I don't really care.

Sep 07, 2015 07:50 AM
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Olga Simoncelli
Veritas Prime, LLC dba Veritas Prime Real Estate - New Fairfield, CT
CONSULTANT, Real Estate Services & Risk Management

You know what they say - no sex, religion or politics... It's hard to keep your mouth shut sometimes, when you're passionate about something.

Sep 07, 2015 06:25 AM
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Mike Rock
Complete Design - Granite Bay, CA
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say nothing. nothing. nothing.nothing. Dont agree with them, (cause you dont) dont disagree because you are selling them a house not moving in with them. if we all agreed 100% we would all live in the same house, watch the same movies etc. we do our job. they arent asking you to do something wrong, unethical, immoral etc.....sorry i got going there

Sep 07, 2015 05:36 AM
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Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
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Ignore them or kick them out of the car.

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Katina Hargrove 352-551-0308
Stake Your Land Realty, Inc. - Eustis, FL
Broker/Owner, SFR®, e-PRO®, GRI, AHWD, REALTOR®

Good morning Mona Gersky,

Your customers have the right to their own opinions. You were selected to show them homes and nothing else I hope. Keep your life simple

Sep 13, 2015 12:02 AM
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Ginger Harper
Coldwell Banker Sea Coast Advantage~ Ginger Harper Real Estate Team - Southport, NC
Your Southport~Oak Island Agent~Brunswick County!

Keep your mouth shut!

Sep 11, 2015 05:49 AM
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Chip Morgan
Long Realty - Dove Mountain, Marana AZ - Tucson, AZ
LSS, LSE, LMS

sometimes people forget that when they dont go into an office, punch a timeclock, or work the proverbial 9-5 that this is a job.  Religion and Politics have no place to be discussed in the workplace.

Sep 09, 2015 12:41 AM