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Happy Birthday Dad.  Today would have been my Dad's 74th birthday.  My dad was taken from me by cancer almost 15 years ago.  I miss his sense of humor, his loyalty, and his advice. My dad was born in western Pennsylvania in the 1930s.  He moved to New Jersey with his family as a child and they settled in a small town called Ramsey.  He went to school there leaving just prior to his graduation (he did graduate but skipped the ceremony) to join the Air Force where he served his time training radar operators throughout the country.  One of his favorite places that he was stationed was Alaska.  When Dad got home from the service, he surprised his family by going into police work, starting in a part time position in a three or four man department in the 1950s and ending his career as a Chief of Police in the early 1980s. During that time he was very active in the goings on around Ramsey.  Serving on the ambulance corps and on the planning board in town.  He retired and went on to have some time to relax before his diagnosis and battle with Non-Hodgkin's Lymphoma.  I often think of him and miss him a lot.

The strange thing about today is that I did not realize today was the 4th of September until a few minutes ago.  This morning, I was responding to a post by Jesse Clifton about a recent trip he took to celebrate the end of summer up north and my Dad was there with me looking at the great photos of his favorite state.  Later I was thinking of strange names for streets in response and there Dad was again with a memory of the time he from his planning board days when fought a developer over some trees that were not going to allow safe exit onto the roadway.  The developer lost the battle and named the street Lost Trees Lane.  All of a sudden I looked at the date and realized it was his birthday.  I guess he is trying to let me know he is still here with me and always will be in the memories and moments I treasure.  
 
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22 Comments on Happy Birthday Dad - I Miss You And Thank You For Still Watching Over Me.

Paddy I am sorry for your loss. I am happy that your Dad gave you so many great memories. Having him watch over you should give you comfort.

09/04/2008 08:42 AM by John Guiney e-PRO, CBR (Keller Williams Realty)


Paddy, God bless you.  It is funny the emotions that get swirled around after the loss of one of our parents.  For me, I lost my mom this March.  Oh the regrets I have, but I won't go in to that.  What I hope is that my parents both realize how many fond memories I have of my childhood even though I was always the "independent" son that rarely called and hadn't been home in about 6 years before her death.  I do miss her and keep a beautiful black and white photo of her from her late 20's on our end table.  Take care of yourself Paddy, and Happy Birthday to your Dad!!!

09/04/2008 08:51 AM by Capital District Real Estate, Lewis Beynon (Keller Williams Realty, Capital District)


Thanks Lewis,  I am sorry for your loss and regrets.  We all have them.  My mom passed in January of this year also and I have pleanty of regrets with her but I did get to let her knowthat I loved her before she left.  BTW I had to check around for your name so you might want to add it to your signature somehow. 

09/04/2008 09:24 AM by Paddy Pizappi PineBush & Hudson Valley NY Real Estate (RJ Smith Realty Real Estate Solutions)


Paddy - Happy Birthday to you father and it sounds as though he is staying with you. I am sorry for your loss and can definitely relate. I lost my father 17 years ago, and miss him like it was yesterday. I know he is still with me in many ways. I recently attended the funeral for my girlfriend's father and it was sad how all the emotions came back. Have a great day for your Dad!

09/04/2008 09:58 AM by Sharon Paxson (Prudential California Realty)


Thanks Sharon.  I am sorry for your loss as well but glad that you feel him with you too.

09/04/2008 10:06 AM by Paddy Pizappi PineBush & Hudson Valley NY Real Estate (RJ Smith Realty Real Estate Solutions)


I know what it's like....the feelings as each birthday and holiday that passes....the connection with a dad and his little girl. My father passed away from lung cancer Feb. of 2004. I finally quit smoking Jan. 13 of 2007 :)

 

Happy Birthday to your dad and the memories you carry!

09/04/2008 10:25 AM by Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman (RA), e-PRO HAWAII Relocations & HAWAII Real Estate (Century 21 Liberty Homes -Mililani, Hawaii)


Thanks Sally and I am happy you quit smoking.  I have been smoke free for 19 years and am so happy that I quit back then.

09/04/2008 10:29 AM by Paddy Pizappi PineBush & Hudson Valley NY Real Estate (RJ Smith Realty Real Estate Solutions)


Paddy, I am so glad that your dad still comes around and lets you know that he is there.  Happy Birthday to your dad and I hope all the wonderful memories you had together keep you happy all day long!

09/04/2008 10:30 AM by Cristal Drake - Fullerton Area Realtor (Re/Max North Orange County)


Thanks Cristal.  It is funny how he shows up from time to time but on his birthday, this was especially good.

09/04/2008 10:44 AM by Paddy Pizappi PineBush & Hudson Valley NY Real Estate (RJ Smith Realty Real Estate Solutions)


Hi, Paddy - I'm glad the photo's brought back memories of you dad.  I lost mine several years ago and it's still hard.  I do know that he, like your dad, is with us every day.  It can be the strangest things that evoke a memory but I'm always happy to remember his face.  Happy Birthday to you dad... I'm sure he's very proud of you!

09/04/2008 02:50 PM by Fairbanks Ak Real Estate Broker Jesse Clifton (Jesse & Kathy Clifton, REALTORS 907-699-6024)


Hi Paddy,

I lost my dad 3 years ago in Aug.  Good memories stay forever.

All the best!

09/04/2008 02:51 PM by Kevin O'Shea, White Plains, NY Real Estate (Homes of Westchester, Inc.)


Thanks Jesse I am glad that he got to spend time in Alaska and that you brought him back to me through your pics.  Sorry for your loss and I am glad that you feel your Dad is with you too.

I am sorry you lost your Dad too Kevin.  Thanks for your thoughts. 

09/04/2008 07:35 PM by Paddy Pizappi PineBush & Hudson Valley NY Real Estate (RJ Smith Realty Real Estate Solutions)


What a sweet post remembering your dad.  Time does not heal all wounds.  I'm sorry for your loss and thankful that you have such wonderful memories of him.  Not everyone is so fortunate to have such a great Dad, you were very lucky.

09/05/2008 08:00 AM by Lisa Friedman Central New Jersey Real Estate (Pinnacle Realtors)


Morning Paddy,

Thank you for sharing those great memories of your dad. My dad passed on when I was only four. To this day I have fond memories of things we did together. My Dad, as yours, will always be with us.

09/05/2008 08:56 AM by Harold (Hal) Place (A1 Connection Realty, Inc.)


Thanks Lisa.  I hope that you have good memories too and if not that you are making good ones today.

Thanks Hal.  I am glad you can remember things you did with Dad at such a young age.

09/05/2008 09:11 AM by Paddy Pizappi PineBush & Hudson Valley NY Real Estate (RJ Smith Realty Real Estate Solutions)


Paddy~What a nice tribute to your father. I am sure he is missed in physical presence, but always with you in spirit. Enjoy the memories...those are what counts the most!

09/05/2008 09:24 AM by LaShawn Norden (RE/MAX Central Realty)


Isn't it amazing how things like this happen.  I'm glad you have such wonderful memories of your father and I know he is watching out for you still!!!

09/05/2008 05:22 PM by Becky Cook Ulster County, NY- New Paltz, Highland, Marlboro, NY Real Estate (EXIT Realty Services- New Paltz, NY)


Paddy,

Your dad sounds like a fine man. My dad passed on when I was 28. His birthday was on September 3rd. He would have been 61.

I can see you miss the big guy... I know the feelings, you're not alone.

09/06/2008 12:18 AM by Greg Nino Houston Texas (RE/MAX West Houston Professionals)


Paddy, I can certainly relate. My dad died of cancer about 20 years ago too. I do miss him as well...

09/06/2008 04:14 AM by Michael Thornton - Nashville, TN area Home Inspector (Complete Home Inspections, Inc.)


Thanks for your comment Becky.

Greg, I am sorry for your loss as well and know that your Dad is there fro you too.

It never goes away does it Michael.  I feel that it is especially difficult when loved ones are taken too soon with accident or disease.

09/06/2008 05:01 AM by Paddy Pizappi PineBush & Hudson Valley NY Real Estate (RJ Smith Realty Real Estate Solutions)


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