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Relaxation is a vital part of our mental and physical health.  We all strive for success but in order to do that sometimes we need to stop... and relax.  The real estate business is very stressful, as we all know well, but sometimes in order best succeed and reach the top we need to rest and regain strength. 

 

Take Mountain Climbing for example--  You cannot climb Mount Everest in one day-you must first trek from Lukla to the Base Camp at 17,600 ft.  Then scale the Kumbu Icefall up to 19,500 ft where you will rest at the First Camp in the Valley of Silence.  Then you will push yourself to camp 2 at 21,300 ft.  You will find yourself scaling the Lhotse Face to climb to Camp 3 located at 23,500 Ft.  There you will rest and acclimate for your trek to Camp IV which is located at 26,300 ft.  After plenty of rest and waiting for the perfect weather conditions you will make it to the 29,028 foot summit-the highest point on earth.

But what is an essential part of reaching the top of Mount Everest?   Plenty of rest and relaxation.

Here are some tips to help you relax so you can then succeed:

Relaxation Techniques- This site has a several different relaxation techniques that you can do anywhere!  An important part of relaxation is remember not to force yourself to relax, just let it happen. 

Use your Imagination-  Caught up in crazy negotiations and need a quick way to relax?  Let your imagination do the work.  Take a moment to close your eyes and picture someplace relaxing.  On a beach in Mexico?  Be sure to include every detail as if you were actually there-  the breeze blowing from the ocean, the birds squawking, the waves splashing a few feet away, etc.  An instant pick-me up!

Exercise- We all know exercise releases endorphins which then causes your body to relax and make you happier.   Certain days of the week I take the time to wake up early and fit in a 5 AM exercise, although it sounds like it would make for a long day-it actually gives me more peace throughout the day and easier to sleep at night!  Fit in at least 20 minutes a day of moderate exercise (watch a exercise video at home, ride a bike, walk your dogs, etc).  You will find you encounter much less stress throughout the day.

Meditation-  In meditation you try to remove all thoughts and emotions other than your controlled breathing from your mind.  It can be extremely difficult for some but the effects are rewarding.  Try out this site on How to Meditate and the Benefits.

The best approach to Relaxation?

Smile and Laugh-  Ever heard "Laughter is the best Medicine"?  Well, in terms of relaxation they are correct.  Turn on your favorite music and dance around, read some jokes and then share with your friends, smile at the stranger walking by, go to the theater or rent a funny movie.  As Fellow Active Rainer Gary Woltal said, "Life is Good, Pass it On"

""Show me a worrying person and I will show you
a person whodoes not know how to relax." - Albert E. Cliffe

What do you do to Relax?

 
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21 Comments on Relax to Succeed! - Do you know how?

you are right...when you relax, you don't appear so desperate, and people can feel that how are you all coping in LA is the storm coming your way, talking about not being able to relax?

08/30/2008 04:36 PM by Konnie MAC Northern Virginia Real Estate (Konnie McKee )


Toni,

Relaxation is an important part of having balance in my life. It is good to work hard but rewarding myself is important also. I just got back from the lake and feel refreshed and ready to work hard again.

John Powers

Restaurants4SaleOnline.com LLC

08/30/2008 05:05 PM by John Powers (Selling Restaurants)


exercise works for me to the extend i get stressed if i do not swim 2 miles a day ... it is weird but exercise time is the best thyime of my day ... clears my thinking ... gives me new ideas ... enables me to eat anything I want :) ...  

08/30/2008 05:25 PM by PalmHomes LLC


The key is reducing stress.  Relaxation is but one technique.  Find an avenue for release.  Mind is ice hockey to blow someone's block off.  Nice guy in the office and not so nice on the ice......

 

cheers.

08/30/2008 05:32 PM by Tim Moncrief (Keller Williams Realty (Bartlett Real Estate Group))


Exercise is really a great stress reducer...me, I just wash the dishes, or start cleaning something.....or pulling weeds. These activities allow me to be doing something constructive while thinking :)

08/30/2008 06:53 PM by Kathy McGraw ~ Calif Broker (CELLing Realty)


Toni, great insight into what several of us have practiced for some time. It's not a secret, it's more a way of life. It's a matter of letting go, hard to teach, but the reward...

08/30/2008 08:22 PM by Paul Henderson (RE/MAX Professionals)


you are so right and that is one relaxed cat!!! seems that cats really do know how to relax!

your friend in Charlottesville!

08/31/2008 08:24 AM by Charles McDonald / Your Trusted Broker for Charlottesville Real Estate (RE/MAX Assured Property)


Toni,

     Good to remind us that we need to relax. Usually when I think about relaxing it's to hurry up and relax because I have other things to do so I need to get it over with. Not very good technique I guess.

     I have found something that does help. When my peers are off playing golf or tennis I run outdoor adventure activities. I do occasional work on a ropes course teaching team building, communication, personal development etc. By the end of the day I'm pretty worn out but definitely in a better frame of mind.

08/31/2008 05:04 PM by Larry Riggs (Re/Max Results)


Toni,

Right on!!!!!!

Too many think that if they worry enough and lose sleep over things that they will get resolved.....we all need peace of mind, body and spirit.

08/31/2008 07:01 PM by Dan Brudnok - Realtor, e-PRO, ABR, CSP - Chester County RE Professional (Keller Williams - Exton - PA License Number #RS225179L )


I go to Lake Almaden and feed the ducks and geese or I go to Half Moon Bay and hang out when the rest of the world is at work! I get connected and re-energized - reading a good book also helps - because I can get lost in a good book. I will often meditate as well and I love to laugh! 

 

08/31/2008 07:09 PM by Kathleen Daniels (San Jose ~ Silicon Valley Real Estate )


Hey Toni,  It is hard to relax but I have a message twice a month and the best relaxation for me is playing with my little teacup Yorkie, Baby!

09/01/2008 03:45 PM by Tracy Soussi -Waterfront & Gated Community Specialist (Wingfoot Real Estate)


Great technique for relaxation. I love the pictures. Good advice . Thanks for the reminder.

09/02/2008 05:17 AM by GITA BANTWAL, REALTOR BUCKS COUNTY, PA HOMES (ReMax Centre Realtors)


Toni, thanks for the reminder.  Great book by Dr. Herbert Benson - The Relaxation Response.  It's hard to REMEMBER do these simple things sometimes.  I like the comments about exercise and blowing off steam, too.  Gotta build it all in I suppose so it's habit.

09/02/2008 10:23 AM by Charlie Harden Columbia, SC Real Estate & Relocation (The Leo Windham Agency - home@charlieharden.com)


Toni - Thanks for sharing these great ideas for improving a vital part of our lives.  Relaxation techniques provide proven benefits to mind and body and we all need to replenish our systems to maintain a high level of productivity.

09/02/2008 11:42 AM by Lynn Johnson, Owatonna, MN Real Estate (Coldwell Banker Home Connection)


This is such a great post!  I have been told this by a lender I do business with............he tells me to relax, things will go smoother.  I tend to get a hyper - excited....but in a good way, but still need to slow down, and relax.

09/04/2008 05:18 PM by Michelle Gordon (Keller Williams Realty, Independently owned and operated)


Konnie-  Very True! The storm did add unneeded stress and hit Baton Rouge pretty hard but we are making it through and business is continuing forward!

John- I'm glad you are feeling refreshed!  It's very important to your success!

George-  I understand, Exercise is also a huge relaxer for me as well!

Tim-  The key definitely is reducing stress, I am glad you have found your outlet for that.

Kathy- Constructive relaxing is the best!!

Paul- Not a secret but definitely hard to teach some people!

Charles- Yes, we could take some lessons from that cat!

Larry- What a great form of relaxation-- I'm sure the lessons could also be useful in other aspects of life.

Dan- I'm glad you enjoyed this post!  Worrying is not a way to resolve things, but relaxation and clear thinking are.

09/10/2008 01:00 PM by Toni House - Realtor Baton Rouge Real Estate Expert (Keller Williams Realty- Red Stick Partners)


Kathleen- Sounds like you have some great places around you to relax at!

Tracy- What a great way to relax!  I'm sure it is adorable!

Grace- Anytime!

Gita- You are very welcome, I am glad you enjoyed this!

Charlie- I am going to have to search Amazon for that book... thanks for the tip!

Lynn- You are very welcome, I hope they help you out!

Cindy- Haha!  Do I need to make a post on procrastination?

Michelle- Thank you for stopping by and the best to you in the art of relaxation.  Your lender is correct!

09/10/2008 01:04 PM by Toni House - Realtor Baton Rouge Real Estate Expert (Keller Williams Realty- Red Stick Partners)


Cutting the grass and just pidlling around the house relaxes me.

09/10/2008 03:35 PM by Dianne Barody - Pensacola Florida Real Estate (Century 21 AmeriSouth Realty)


I love to just relax and read sometimes or watch a special movie - but just to be by myself - just pidling around!

09/10/2008 08:42 PM by Norma J Elkins Realtor Elkins Home Selling Team ( Exit Triple "E" Realty)


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