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"How to go from "I found you on the Internet" to "Let's get married"

This article is not a prescription for getting the largest possible number of clients in the satisfied real estate clientshortest time. It is about building long lasting relationships with clients.

For starters, let's get rid of the salespeople favorite word "leads". Why do we insist on calling people "leads" instead of  "prospective clients"? Some may think it's a minor point.  For me, it  somehow devalues and de-personalizes the relationship before it even started. People looking for a romantic match on the Internet don't say "I got a call from a very handsome lead". More likely it's: "I got a call from a great guy I would like to meet". No different with real estate clients -we are looking for a relationship.

Having changed my marketing focus to blogging from the conventional methods, I learned  interesting lessons.

1. Write content for the type of clients you want to attract.
The people who contact me from the blog are more often then not similar to me. They are detail oriented, focus on and appreciate research, value education as part of the selling process, are looking for a lot of useful information, could recognize intelligence and knowledge when they see it, do not believe they know -it -all, have an open mind, are suspicious of hard core sales people .

This made my year a lot more enjoyable. In contrast, pursuing FSBO last year, as the conventional wisdom for the relatively new real estate agents,  produced, putting it mildly, a lot of stress. These are often people convinced they know it all, suspicious of advice, apprehensive of the value of your work, etc.

This as not what my heart desired.

2. Be there to answer the call.
I rarely have to call back -I am there when the phone rings, sometimes startling the person on the other line. One client said, of the several calls he placed, I was the only one who answered the phone...Clients said they were not sure why real estate agents advertise their phone numbers if they are not there to answer them.

E-mail immediately, if you don't have the phone number to call. Be sensitive to the style of inquiry. Do not push to get the person's phone number. Realize it could be a slow dance of getting to know each other through e-mails. The goal here is in each e-mail to provide value while finding out a bit more about the client's needs.

3. Judge the tempo
It could be a slow dance or it could be a cha-cha. It is often slower with buyer clients, then seller clients, since sellers are often under more time pressure. I had clients contact me after several failed relationships with other agents. What ever dissatisfaction  was generated with the previous agent, the client may need time to see if and how you are different.

4. No hard sell
One thing I never do is push. Some times clients get stuck in the analysis paralysis and/or unable to make decisions. There are agents who believe such clients need to be pushed towards making  a decision. I found two things could happen. The client gets stressed. If they make the decision, they are never certain later if it was the right decision and could come to resent you as an agent. If the stress gets to be too much, they would go somewhere else.

Buying and selling is stressful enough for clients. My job is to minimize the stress, not add to it.

5. Educate as you go
Let's suppose the client didn't take your advice and, for example, didn't offer what you recommended. Let's suppose it caused them to "lose" a bid. This is not the end of the world. In fact, better then anything you could say or do, it showed the client the value and validity of your advice.

This is one way my clients come to trust me - they see my words come true. It's not about the promises of a great job, or the ads with my smiling face, or the hype of being #1 producer. It's simply advising and guiding, so your words become verifiable facts. Does it take extra time? Yes. Does it stretch the process? May be. Does it built stronger relationships ? Most certainly.

One thing I found not to be the case. Prospective clients calling to hire you from a blog.

This is what I read a lot on Active Rain. Some may say my blogging has not risen to the heights needed for this to be the case. Fair enough. I am not sure I could fault prospective sellers for not hiring me right off the bat based on my blog. Again, my clients tend to be similar to me in many ways. I would not hire someone to do something very important, let's say surgery, just because I liked their blog, or even got a recommendation. I would want to meet them in person, meet other doctors, and decide then. Having a blog should make the client's task easier -more of a confirmation rather then investigation from scratch.

I found this to be the case with the sellers. When prospective clients ask me if they should talk to other agents, I say -"Sure". Why? Because:

  • 1. It's part of due diligence.
  • 2. Blog is a resume and a bit of an interview. It's not the interview.
  • 3. Through my blog they could peak "into my head" over a long time, most other agents don't offer it to their clients.
  • 4. I am confident in my  abilities.
  • 5. If they select someone else, it would have not been a good match anyway. This saves me time, expense and aggravation.
  • 6. This is not the last chance we have to work together.
  • 7. When the prospective client's choice turns out wrong they come back appreciating even more what I have to offer.


Be smart, be focused, be responsive, be respectful, be an advisor, know your stuff, get the job done. Hey, it's easy to get clients for life.

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54 Comments on 5 Easy steps to convert a "lead" to a satisfied client

Great post as a ABR I enjoy reading posts like your. Since I receive many contacts from the northern snowbirds wanting to come to Florida I strive to do my best in customer service. Keep me in mind if you have some sellers heading my way.

08/29/2008 07:24 AM by Donald Urschalitz P.A. Realtor ABR e-Pro North Palm Beach County ABR (One World Realty Inc.)


hi Faina!

WoW, you really hit the nail on the head with this post. I flagged this as I believe it would help many agents out there and the more that read it, the better.

Thanks for putting this together....it was refreshing and helpful first thing this morning, not to mention very inspirational!

Jo

 

08/29/2008 07:26 AM by Jo-Anne Smith-Belleville, Quinte and Prince Edward Region Real Estate, Ont. (Royal Lepage Proalliance Realty, Brokerage)


Faina,
Excellent and I love the analogy.  I think the way we work depends on our personality and we're all different.  Recognizing our strengths, weaknesses and the type of clients that we connect best with is important and certainly helps us be more successful.

08/29/2008 07:35 AM by Cynthia Tilghman, Realtor® Onslow County NC Home Specialist (Kingsbridge Realty, Inc)


Donald -Florida is a good place to be when it gets cold up here:) Thanks for your comment.

Jo-Anne -thanks so much for words of confidence and the support.  These are simple ideas, but for some very starnge reason not followed by many in the world of real estate.

08/29/2008 08:12 AM by Faina Sechzer - Princeton, Montgomery, Hopewell, NJ Real Estate Expert (Henderson-Sotheby's International Realty)


Barry - you are too funny -gave me a good laugh in the morning, love it:) BTW, what would you do with the cloned me?:)

Cynthia - I truly believe this to be one of the great benefits of blogging -attracting the type of clients you would like to work with. A static site can't differentiate one agent from another, a bloge could.

At the end of the day, it's the actual work done for the client (not just the words on the blog), that makes the difference.

 

08/29/2008 08:18 AM by Faina Sechzer - Princeton, Montgomery, Hopewell, NJ Real Estate Expert (Henderson-Sotheby's International Realty)


Faina - I love the let's get married analogy - These are great steps towards making the right connections with people who obviously share an interest with us:) Thanks!

08/29/2008 08:24 AM by Cooper Jacobs Real Estate Services


Fiana.  I believe you've got my office bugged. 

I too, eschew the term "lead".  When I refer them to an agent in my network, I find myself describing the prospective buyer as a "lovely gentleman" or "very nice lady". 

That is how they seem to me when I speak with them.  If they were not, we probably wouldn't have gotten far enough for me to refer them.

 

08/29/2008 08:42 AM by Lenn Harley Homefinders.com MD & VA Real Estate


I have to agree, use the term future customer. Thanks for sharing this great information.

08/29/2008 09:00 AM by Patrick (Pat) Dardis (Royal LePage True North Realty)


Faina, just got this on my Google Alerts for a team I search. Of course I would have found it later when I logged on. Until this is a connection, they are just an interested person. Once we connect they become a potential client or a customer. Good advice on telling them to look around, shows security and confidense.

08/29/2008 09:37 AM by Missy Caulk-Ann Arbor- Realtor(R)- Ann Arbor Real Estate (Keller Williams-Ann Arbor)


Cooper -sometimes putting things in words that many could relate to helps drive the point home. I am glad we see it the same way.

Lenn -wait, I thought you bugged my office first:) On a second thought, I am rarely in my office:) I am not surprised that we share several similar views.

Missy - an interested person is most often someones potential client. People inquiring into real estate usually have more then a passing interest. The question is whose client would they become and what to do for them to choose us for life. BTW, just curious what term triggered the Google alert?

08/29/2008 10:00 AM by Faina Sechzer - Princeton, Montgomery, Hopewell, NJ Real Estate Expert (Henderson-Sotheby's International Realty)


What a thoughtful, well written blog. I really appreciate your perspective. Thank you.

08/29/2008 06:02 PM by Leigh Newport Northern Virginia Home Staging (Staged by Design)


Great post Feina. I use most of the qualities here but I should implement them all.

08/29/2008 07:43 PM by Mike Jackson (Realty World Global)


Faina,

Thank you for the insight. Making yourself available to take phone calls and actually replying to correspondance is something that is becoming very rare. Kudos to you.

08/29/2008 07:53 PM by Howard Tennyson (Ace Home Inspection, LLC)


Leigh -thanks.

Mike - thanks.

Howard - has it been your experience as well? Thanks for your comment.

08/29/2008 09:50 PM by Faina Sechzer - Princeton, Montgomery, Hopewell, NJ Real Estate Expert (Henderson-Sotheby's International Realty)


Faina,

I also appreciate your perspective. And we've also adopted the prospective home buyer idea. (Not the "lead" label)

08/29/2008 10:27 PM by Jon Boyd Ann Arbor Real Estate Buyer's Agent (Home Buyer's Agent of Ann Arbor)


I've sold a great number of homes because I answered the phone at odd hours of odd days.  I hear it all the time, "You answered the phone, the other  __ agents I called didn't.

I smile all the way to the bank!!

08/30/2008 12:31 AM by Bill Sauneuf (Preview Properties Skagit LLC)


Hi Faina

Your title caught my eye, and I am glad to visit your blog.  I have been receiving a number of "leads", and I agree that I prefer to call them prospective clients too, except I haven't thought of marriage yet.  Other than those who contact me directly, I have just been collecting their info, and placing them on auto-alerts on listings.  Any suggestions? The post is my kind of perspective.  No hard sell yet persausive enough with the lure of information, knowledge and confidence. 

08/30/2008 12:32 AM by Sherry Sim, SRES, E-Pro Covering the Beautiful Central Coast CA (RE/MAX Seven Cities Realty)


2. Be there to answer the call.
I rarely have to call back -I am there when the phone rings, sometimes startling the person on the other line.

Very good.  That should give you a strong competitive advantage.  I've been helping one of my sons search for his first home.  I still haven't found an agent here in Southern CA who answers their phone!

08/30/2008 12:36 AM by Not Yet Licensed


Great Post. I agree, I have never used the term lead. And my sister sells in the Cha Cha pace & I am a two step. My blogs are not Brain Surgery either but I think word of mouth & a "I love referrals" will work faster than blogging.

08/30/2008 12:42 AM by Claudia Efthimos (Signature Homes & Estates)


Faina - it is like a dance, isn't it?  I agree with you, they are people, not leads.  Real estate is my business, but I never forget that buying a home is personal.

08/30/2008 12:58 AM by Virginia Hepp - Mesquite Nevada Real Estate Agent (ERA Brokers Consolidated - Mesquite NV Homes)


Congratulations on getting clients that are more like you and more enjoyable for you.  Your ideas make a lot of sense.

08/30/2008 02:38 AM by Christine Donovan Costa Mesa Real Estate (Broker/Attorney) (Donovan Blatt Team - Donovan Group Realty)


Number 2 and response time is absolutely critical - if you don't connect you aren't even in the game

08/30/2008 04:04 AM by Scott Hoen, ePro, MBA (eMarketing Services)


Faina, Great post. I enjoy reading your posts. I agree we should think of them as prsopective clients.

08/30/2008 05:10 AM by GITA BANTWAL, REALTOR BUCKS COUNTY, PA HOMES (ReMax Centre Realtors)


Thanks for the post.  You're right on target.  When you meet with prospective clients you begin building relationships.  You want those relationships to be positive and lasting.  Being professional in every step of the way will insure that you do that.

08/30/2008 06:41 AM by Jon Wnoroski, Summit County Realtor (Geneva Chervenic Realty, Inc.)


Faina, such a refreshing post...I try follow the person's lead also, but what happens when they sign into your website and you email them and they don't respond.  Would you email them again?

08/30/2008 06:46 AM by Judy Greenberg- Buffalo Grove-Long Grove- Vernon Hills Real Estate (Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage)


Faina, such a refreshing post...I try follow the person's lead also, but what happens when they sign into your website and you email them and they don't respond.  Would you email them again?

08/30/2008 06:46 AM by Judy Greenberg- Buffalo Grove-Long Grove- Vernon Hills Real Estate (Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage)


Faina - perfect post! You are right - word Lead is s outdated as the Hard sell is. Regarding blogging and sales - it's really hard to define one reason why people hire us. Blogging may make us attractive to the potential clients but it's too many reasons behind the actual decision they make. That's why we use multichannel marketing. 

08/30/2008 06:52 AM by Svetlana Stolyarova,Local-n-Global Realty, Broker (Local-n-Global Realty)


Faina,

I like the way you think AND act.  Your article is a fantastic key to success ... especially those seven bullet points.  It's very clear, non-complicated information.  Some of your advice I've learned the hard way.  Other points I've just learned from you to put into action right away.  Thank you for sharing it.

08/30/2008 08:13 AM by The Story of Home with Kevin Foster (The Story of Home)


Thank you for this post.  Such a great way to think. Have a great weekend!

08/30/2008 08:21 AM by Pamela Patterson (Prudential C. Dan Joyner Co.)


Great post. When agents do not answer their cell during normal business hours you wonder what they are thinking and it happens very often.

08/30/2008 08:41 AM by Richard Lecinski (Long Realty Company)


Thanks for such an encouraging post, it reminded me of the old cliche' People do not care how much you know till they know how much you care.  Caring enough to build a relationship can reap more than just one business deal.  I am going to read some more of your posts.

08/30/2008 09:34 AM by Steve Mattison (Souvenir Realty)


I just love it when someone takes the time to help others.  And that is exactly what you have done.  I applaud your thoughtfulness and sincerely hope that many more "Prospective Clients" reach you on that easy to reach line you have posted.

08/30/2008 09:42 AM by George Sanchez - The Homefinding Center™ (The Homefinding Center)


Wonderful post and thougths. I met a new real estate agent yesterday. At first it was hard to tell from the discussion whether she was new or experienced. Her questions and statements seemed sometimes to convey inexperience and experience.

She is less than 6 months in the business. Her questions sometimes conveyed experience because she is a listener.

And she has immediately recognized the need to build a team and relationships.

She is going to be an excellent agent.

I think I will pass along your thoughts in this post, after I study them myself.

Richard

08/30/2008 09:43 AM by Richard Smith Mortgages Home Loans FHA TN GA AL (American Acceptance Mortgage, Inc)


Faina, great blog and information and tips provided to us all

08/30/2008 11:27 AM by Greg Adelman (Midwest Home Center)


thanks for the tip!

Johnahan Smith
Staten Island
http://www.johnresales.com

 

08/30/2008 11:42 AM by Johnathan Smith (Gillani Home)


Great post.  This is a good reminder that this is a marathon and not a sprint.

08/30/2008 02:48 PM by DeAnna Troupe (DeAnna Troupe's Virtual Assistant Service)


I appericate this information. It does make you stop and think about it!

08/30/2008 04:23 PM by Judi Downing Real Estate Properties in Charlotte & Union Co (Keller Williams Realty)


You hit the nail on the head about if after all of that they do not want to work with you. You are right that it would not be a good match.

08/30/2008 04:52 PM by Billy Witwikki (CaliforniaMoneyHelpers)


Leigh -thanks for checking out my blog.

Mike - thanks.

Jon - interesting. I am sure I am not the only one with these ideas:)

Judy - I e-mail, only if asked. My policy on the blog: no unsolicited contact (no drip e-mail and such). If they asked for something, I answer. After that I e-mail if there is something of value I think they may need to know. If I don't hear back for a while, it ussually means it was a casual inquiry, and my help is not needed. Many agents find this approach not agressive enough:)

Svetlana -sure, there are many reasons why agents are hired, just as there are many successful channels for marketing. Blogging is not better or worth, as long as it works for you. For me it was better then FSBO:)

08/31/2008 06:41 AM by Faina Sechzer - Princeton, Montgomery, Hopewell, NJ Real Estate Expert (Henderson-Sotheby's International Realty)


Bill -it's almost funny to get business just by being there to answer the call. On a second though, much in life is the old proverbial "right place at the right time":)

Sherry -it depends on what kind of inquiry you received. If someone left their e-mail, because that's the only way to use the search or something else on your system, IMO, it doesn't mean they want you to contact them. My policy : no unsolicited e-mails or calls. If I answer an inquiry and don't hear back, I periodically send another e-mail with something specific for that person. I do not use drip e-mail, because they are too general to address specific person's needs. This is by no way conventional wisdom in real estate. I just do it differently:)

08/31/2008 06:52 AM by Faina Sechzer - Princeton, Montgomery, Hopewell, NJ Real Estate Expert (Henderson-Sotheby's International Realty)


Not Yet Licensed - shoot me an e-mail, I would help you find someone who would do a good job in SoCal.

Kevin -it's not brain surgery. It's all very simple:) Thanks.

Pamela -thanks for the kind words.

Steve -you are so right about caring. You are also right about pocking on my blog:) Thanks.

Greg- thanks.

Johnathan - you are a man of few words, and big pictures:) BTW, you may want to check community guidelines about this.

08/31/2008 07:03 AM by Faina Sechzer - Princeton, Montgomery, Hopewell, NJ Real Estate Expert (Henderson-Sotheby's International Realty)


George - from your mouth to G-s ears:) Thanks.

DeAnna - what a great way to think about it.

Jeann - I am not sure how else to get anyones commitment in life and in work, except by making people feel good. In work it mostly translates to delivering what a client wants/expects. Thanks.

Judi -thanks.

Billy - we see it the same way.

08/31/2008 07:12 AM by Faina Sechzer - Princeton, Montgomery, Hopewell, NJ Real Estate Expert (Henderson-Sotheby's International Realty)


This is a great reminder that all leads are not instant.  Many must incubate and come back again and again.  We must earn their trust, before they decide they want us as their agent.  Great job.

08/31/2008 06:28 PM by Kay Van Kampen, Broker, Springfield Missouri Real Estate (RE/MAX Solutions)


Great post, especially, for those of us who are not sorting our leads emough.

09/01/2008 10:35 AM by Michael Sahlman e-PRO - Miami Beach Florida Real Estate (www.HomesForVIPs.com - Keller Williams Realty)


Great post and reminder that even if they find us through google or active rain, its meeting us that determines if the client wants to work with us!

09/02/2008 08:09 AM by Sonja Adams (Samson Realty, LLC)


Great information and wonderful reminders. I am going to email this one to the girls!

09/02/2008 08:35 PM by Leslie Stewart – Realtor ®, CRS, eCertified (Prudential Real Estate Professionals)


I think the problem with so many people rush to get that lead converted from a lead to a client...

09/02/2008 09:43 PM by Billie Chubb (Chubb Realty Group)


Faina - This is a great post.  I am going to share it with our agents.  We have been working a lot lately on the best methods for following up on website/blog leads.

More importantly, I am always joking around and find humor in everything but for some reason I rarely laugh out loud.  However, your response below to one of the comments here made me laugh out loud tonight.  Cracked me up.

"you are a man of few words, and big pictures:)"

09/10/2008 09:39 PM by Aloysius Donohue - Ridgewood Real Estate (Marron Gildea & Donohue - Ridgewood)


Faina,  Thanks for this excellent post.  All your points are so important and I couldn't agree more.  I especially like your tip to 'Educate as you go' - and take the extra time to do this. 

09/10/2008 10:09 PM by Vicki Pedersen - Riverside CA Realtor (Pedersen Real Estate)


this is great info here.i like the point about answering the phone. It is really hard for me to get some agents on the phone. it drives me crazy. Can only imagine the client.

09/11/2008 02:42 PM by Sharon Harris (AllQuest Real Estate)


Faina - I like your perspective on "prospective clients" versus leads. Good reading - thank you.  You are very gracious - your comment to Johnathan - priceless!  What great personal restraint and professionalism - especially given the option of "delete"   

 

09/11/2008 04:00 PM by Kathleen Daniels


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