While my father passed away nearly two years ago in August 2006, we both were very comfortable with the mortality of all our lives. We used to laugh that when you think about it we are all "terminal", some just get pronouncements from doctors if they get a terminal illness and an estimate about life expectancy. But each day we are all out there "dodging bullets" and you just do the best with the cards you are dealt. We both agreed that in death we would both see each other again some day. That is from our belief in our faith. But while separated it would be nice to have that heavenly telephone number to check in and see how things were going every once in awhile. In any event, I wanted to share my life lessons with you all from my father, John C. Woltal, Dad, from a son's perspective, and Uncle Johnny from my cousin's perspective:
Live each day to the fullest. Pack as much love and laughter in as possible.
Be patient. Everything is not on your schedule.
Mistakes are ok. Forgive quickly. Make the world around you approachable and safe for others to enter.
Be nonjudgmental. There is no time to love if you judge.
Take vacations.
Life is meant to be enjoyed. Have fun every day. Do not be a workaholic.
Your example is living proof to the world who you are. Your ACTIONS speak volumes over your words.
Being gentle and quiet and of few words can make you more powerful than others who are loud and have many words to say.
Finally, and MOST IMPORTANTLY, be "KIND" to everyone. It doesn't matter who they are or how THEY are treating you. Your daily kindness will profoundly impact them. They'll take notice and how you are one of those real difference makers in the world.
I hope everyone has a Happy Father's Day whether you are a father in your family, you want to honor your father who is still with you or you are honoring those fathers who have passed.
Happy Father's Day Dad. I love you and you are still with me.
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