1. Get Positive about life – Get rid of the stress inducers
a. Exaggerating a problem in your mind
- Terms to use: Inconvenient; Annoying; A nuisance; Would rather; Would prefer
- Terms to avoid: Awful; Terrible; Must; Have to; Disastrous; Good
b. Thinking that a situation will be good or bad before it happens – Negative expectations
c. Assuming that the worst will happen – Unrealistic beliefs
d. Setting unrealistic schedules or expecting unrealistic results
e. Having a pessimistic attitude. – Avoid Negative thoughts
2. Develop Good Working Habits
a. Organize – By creating a productive environment for yourself, you can maximize your efficiency at work and minimize stress.
* Take action when dealing with paperwork, Delegation, Bring-forward system, file immediately
b. Prepare – Adequate preparation for meetings and presentations can increase your self-confidence and prevent stress.
- Don’t leave preparation to the last minute.
- Know your audience’s knowledge level
- Practice before the presentation iv. Breathe deeply before the presentation
- Take your time and speak clearly
- Start with an impact
- Smile when you are nervous
c. Control – Interruptions at work can cause major setbacks. By learning to control these, you can focus better on your own work.
- Limit them – time is valuable
- Delay them – Can we meet later?
- Prioritize calls – deal with high priority calls immediately.
d. Proper Meeting Planning - Have an agenda to follow timeline and purpose
- Room size and shape
- Furniture in the Room
- Visual Aids available
- Refreshments
3. Plan your life – What do you really want? Examine your life. Plan your life as short, medium, & long-term.
a. Prioritize
b. Act on priorities
c. Manage your time
* To make the best of your day:
1. Don’t waste the morning
2. Allow for the unexpected
3. Take time to plan
4. Avoid back-to-back meetings
5. Give yourself “telephone time”
6. Use a visual plan
7. Make time for reading
8. Don’t be a slave to your plan
Hi Lu. There are some great tips there; especially the to make the best of your day. I always rely on visualization to get me through. It is amazing how a good schedule and a focused goal can keep you on track. A balanced wheel of life is always the way to go. Great post...thanks.