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 I got a call from an old friend of mine shortly after the New Year.  He wanted to consolidate his 1st & 2nd Mortgages into one loan at a reduced term, a financially savvy decision for sure.  So, onward we went with the process.

Now, this young gent lives in a rather eclectic neighborhood with properties that tend to differ in appearance, size, & condition.  His property happens to be one of the nicer ones in the neighborhood, which tends to make its worth not as ideal as one would like.  None the less, the appraisal was done and came in at a rock solid 290K.  The comparable properties were there, all except for a less than desirable abode across the street that had sold recently for 215K.  The appraiser noted it in the report and while it hurt the value of our subject property, the 290K was still as solid as Lou Ferrigno in the movie "Pumping Iron."

Well good old Murphy's Law came into play and the lender came back with their own search saying the value was only 230K.  Holy slap in the face Batman!  After the initial fury of wanting to briskly walk a few hours and give their Appraisal Review guy an Atomic Wedgie, we stepped back and got the facts.

It seems that another property sold literally right after the appraisal was done.  It was just down the street and it sold for 240K.  Uh oh.....that's not good:-(  So, the appraiser had to re-do the appraisal making note of this new comparable property that just came into play.  We went from 290K to 260K.  It didn't kill the deal by any means but it did introduce the dreaded PMI.

While it didn't help that they sat on the appraisal way too long for my or my amigo's taste, upon hearing this he became agitated.  To a large degree, I completely understood.  His payment would be going up $78.90 and he would have that dreaded term attached to him for at least 2 years.  That said, the deal was still a no-brainer across the board, making total financial sense.  But my amigo, a smart guy but stubborn like me, was going to throw in the towel and forget the whole thing.  Our conversation on the phone was relatively brief.  Normally, with any other client, I would point out the very reasons it made perfect sense to get it done even though it wasn't as ideal as it was initially on paper.  In this case, I didn't do that.....not initially.

After getting off the phone, I noticed the error of my ways.  I then sent him the following email.....

Hey (Name witheld to protect from prank calls from other AR members)!    

Thought I would shoot you an email to summarize our conversation & the specifics of the transaction regarding the refinancing of your property:  This will prove helpful in sitting down with your wife tonight at dinner.

  • Because the appraisal of your property came in lower than initially anticipated, the loan to value ration is over 80% (88.8%) necessitating a mortgage insurance premium of $78.90. Once the balance reaches 80% of the fair market value, that premium can be removed. Approx. 24 months, an investment of $1893.60.
  • By reducing the term of your loan to twenty years, you are saving over $120,000.00 in total monthly payments over the life of the loan. Additionally, the principle reduction with each payment will far exceed what you are seeing on your current mortgages. In other words, equity in the property will be established faster than in your current mortgage situation.
  • The rate of interest is being reduced nearly 2% vs. your second mortgage, and .625% on your 1st mortgage.
  • As it stands, you are paying $167.95 on the principal each month on your Second Mortgage and $227.31 on the principal each month on your First Mortgage.  Your first payment on your new loan reduces your principal $507.40 off the bat.

As a fellow amigo, I would be doing you a disservice if I were to not outline the facts of the matter.  That's my job.  Because we're friends, I'm not pushing you as hard as I would most of my clients to have them see the proverbial light, but at the same time it is my job to look out for your best interests from a Mortgage Standpoint.   It's unfortunate that the sale of properties in your neighborhood adversely impacts the current value of your property. However, the overall savings to you afforded by this transaction far out weigh the negative impact of a 78.90 monthly payment of mortgage insurance for a couple of years. Let me know what you think.       

Sardi

I made a crucial blunder initially in not imposing my expertise to make sure he made the right decision for him and his wife.  Instead, I played the part of a buddy and not a true Mortgage Consultant.  If I hadn't stepped up to give him a piece of my expertise, I wouldn't be doing my job.  When it comes to dealing with friends, family, former clients or with anyone with whom trust is earned....part of our job is to make sure they don't make bad decisions.  No action is sometimes the worst decision of all.

We'll see what happens....

 

71 Comments on Do you take the Deal when it's not Ideal?

Jason, bet you a triple mocha that you close this guy on the 8th of feb and he can skip the feb and march payment, pocketing $$$$

01/31/2008 03:39 PM by Joe Adams (Major Mortgage USA/Branch Manager)


The initial "don't want them to make a decision that they regret and then have the friendship ruined" thought crosses my mind when working with friends and I have to do a mental check. It's tough wearing both hats. BTW, I think it could have been fun pranking your client. Let me know if you reconsider and decide to expose the innocent bystander's info ;-)

-Colleen

01/31/2008 03:39 PM by Maple Valley WA Broker/Owner Colleen Fischesser 425-432-5400 (RE/MAX Select Real Estate)


Joe - I don't drink mocha's but you can buy me a beer:-)

Colleen - It's tough but who would you rather trust in such an important transaction?  Can't give you his number but I'll gladly do some legwork and we can have fun with some of the other AR contributors:-)

01/31/2008 03:43 PM by Jason Sardi, Pennsylvania Mortgage Broker (First Choice Equity Group Inc.)


The follow up summary was perfect. I hope you post a part 2 and let us all know how he responds....

01/31/2008 03:47 PM by Portland Oregon Real Estate Broker * Jennifer Bukaty * (RE/MAX equity group, inc.)


Jason - It is difficult when we are dealing with friends and family. Point is our friends and family use us because they trust us and respect our advice..we should always give them the straight poop, even when we think it might even hurt our relationship.

I will await to read your part two ....

01/31/2008 04:10 PM by Guilford Connecticut Real Estate Agent, Sandra Cummings (William Raveis Real Estate)


Jason, tell you what  make it 2 beers

01/31/2008 04:32 PM by Joe Adams (Major Mortgage USA/Branch Manager)


Jennifer - I will do so my dear:-)

Sandra - The straigh poop, well said...lol.

Joe - Fair enough!

01/31/2008 04:34 PM by Jason Sardi, Pennsylvania Mortgage Broker (First Choice Equity Group Inc.)


Jason,

I've read a few appraisals and I've never seen a reference to a movie, with out saying the property was used as a set. "The appraiser noted it in the report and while it hurt the value of our subject property, the 290K was still as solid as Lou Ferrigno in the movie "Pumping Iron." is down right strange! Be glad the investor had it reviewed.

You owe every applicant your opinion, you're a professional!/? You can't stop stupidity! After you've clearly ad repeatly expressed yourself, if what they want isn't illegal or immoral do it at least the client will get a good stupid deal. Left on their own the client will get the stupid deal and screwed!

It is never to late to express yourself. Most mistakes can be corrected right up until the loan is recorded. Being a refinance you even get three days to correct this after closing. Give them your best advice, but understand only a liberal politician thins you can protect everyone from their own stupidity! You can't that's how the liberal got elected.

Bill

01/31/2008 04:36 PM by William J Archambault Jr (The Real Estate Investment Institute )


Jason, 
Sometimes outlining it on paper, the way you did with your email, helps someone to see the advantage in going ahead.
We walk a fine line between being 'pushy' and being helpful in our industries, and I believe that honesty and laying the facts out as they are, is what we owe our clients and the way to serve their needs best.

Looking forward to seeing the outcome....

Jo 

01/31/2008 04:40 PM by Jo-Anne Smith-Belleville, Quinte and Prince Edward Region Real Estate, Ont. (Royal Lepage Proalliance Realty, Brokerage)


Jason,

After reading this email you made me want to pick up the phone and call to say "yes." 

I'm sure he'll appreciate the impact of the numbers the way you laid it out to him.


01/31/2008 04:44 PM by Ricardo Bueno (World Wide Credit Corporation)


Bill - Hey man, picking on liberal on my post again I see:-)  In the 36 years you've been doing this, I'm surprised you've never seen a reference to Lou Ferrigno in an appraisal.  In some areas, he's a comp all by himself:-))

Jo -Anne - Especially when you are communicating with your significant other, I feel it easier and more understandable to have it in black and white.  It helps ensure you are making the best decision.

Ricardo - Sorry brotherman, not licensed in Cali.  If you buy a second home in Pa, give me a ring:-)

01/31/2008 04:54 PM by Jason Sardi, Pennsylvania Mortgage Broker (First Choice Equity Group Inc.)


Jason - you did something else by sending this email - you showed your integrity.  It is not about making the $ it is about making sure your CLIENT has the facts - and although you maybe would have done it differently with someone else - you handled this in a manner that allows someone you seem to know very well a cool off period and then show the good points so that they can make an educated decision and not one out of frustration {{{{{{applause}}}}}}

01/31/2008 05:03 PM by Central Oregon Real Estate | Thesa Chambers, Broker (RE/MAX Sunset Realty La Pine)


Jason,

I may have seen Ferrigno mentioned. It wasn't a SFR but rather an all you can eat restaurant. What the appraiser said was that if a certain large movie star could be keep out coast would go down and profits up $10,000 a year raising the value $87,250. Personally I though it was Dan Blockered they never said, but then you can't nock anything Bonanza related in Incline Village.

I didn't mention any liberal by name, just a belief that it takes a village.

Bill

01/31/2008 05:11 PM by William J Archambault Jr (The Real Estate Investment Institute )


Thesa - Well put, decisions should be educated ones...not ones out of frustration.  He's a smart guy though, he'll make a sound decision that's best for him.

Bill - You are a freaking riot!  By the way, the name is Jason or Sardi or whatever.  What happened, Belonger on your mind again?  Speaking of that village idiot......:-)

01/31/2008 05:17 PM by Jason Sardi, Pennsylvania Mortgage Broker (First Choice Equity Group Inc.)


Hay You,

Sorry about that!

You do know I,m one of the worlds worst spellers. The problem with spell checker is that if what you wrote is a word it doesn't know it's the wrong word.

Bill

01/31/2008 05:25 PM by William J Archambault Jr (The Real Estate Investment Institute )


Jason, I challenged an appraisal yesterday, the appraiser was from out of area. You have to live in Ann Arbor to

"get it". I came in 5000.00 below but the appraiser sent over comps in a different school district. This particular appraiser also used and deducted the house because it was on a "traffic street". True but if you knew Ann Arbor the homes closest to downtown and the Univesity of Michigan come in high over 200.00 on every street,  it doesn't  matter. I sent over comps on the same street from 500 to 1 million. My house we're closing on tomorrow is 320K. 

Sometimes we have to defend or challenge an appraisal.  

In your case... well you were honest and that is all that matters. Let us know.

01/31/2008 06:03 PM by Missy Caulk-Ann Arbor- Realtor(R)- Ann Arbor Real Estate (Keller Williams-Ann Arbor)


Jason.. Looks like you made a good case showing him the light... Only other thing I'd suggest is a brief amortization scenario with the current condition verses the refinance to really make that equity build up visible.

01/31/2008 06:14 PM by Dan Cummings - Connecticut's Running Realtor (Raveis Real Estate)


From what I'm gathering from news reports, it's no longer a matter of having qualified buyers.  It's now a matter of finding a mortage company with some money. 

Geez.  How bad can this mess get?

01/31/2008 06:48 PM by Lenn Harley Homefinders.com MD & VA Real Estate


Jason,  Excellent!  I agree with you and you are so right.  But at the same time it might have been better for it to work out this way.  This way he was able to calm down and relax and would read you email at a more calmer moment.  Lousy English - sorry!

01/31/2008 07:08 PM by Marc Grossman, GRI - Greater Orlando Real Estate Specialist (Keller Williams Heritage Realty)


Jason,

Very hard to separate a friend from an arms length transaction...I'm glad you though to treat it more on the business end...so maybe you screwed up:)but you didn't but I'm sure they will put something together with you.

01/31/2008 07:47 PM by Neal Bloom-Realtor ® Assoc.-CRS-Weston FL (RE/MAX Premier Associates)


two different appraisers have called us in the last two days to get our take on something they were appraising. always think that is cool. we've also got a few of them that use the stats on our outside blog... which saves them time, and they are accurate.

like your work here, and like getting the hulk and batman into a piece. also thanks for your comment on our odds of selling a home article we just did. this and that are most appreciated.

looks like a lot of beer is coming to you from this one,

best 

01/31/2008 08:45 PM by Gary Bolen (CRS) Lake Tahoe Real Estate Information (Dickson Realty - South Lake Tahoe)


Good job, Jason!  I'm sure your amigo will appreciate it once his head stops spinning from the disappointment.  It's hard when you have the nicest house on the block because all the others will drag it down.  

But keep after him - he'll figure out that you have his best interest at heart and you are the professional. 

01/31/2008 08:51 PM by Carol Smith (Soon to be Keller Williams Preferred Realty)


Sometimes it's hard to know where the line is. Friendship/ professional advice..how hard to push. laying it out the way you did was good..very honest and professional. Let us know what he decides to do.

01/31/2008 09:10 PM by Monika McGillicuddy~REALTOR®~ N.H. Real Estate Broker & Trainer (Prudential Verani Realty/Hampstead)


Jason,

My money is on you for this one... just plain good advise... by the way I owe you a least a case of Milwaukes's finest... saved two loans for me this week... thanks man

Rick

01/31/2008 09:32 PM by Rick Kellow


Jason,

I'm glad you went back and clarified your position as your amigo's mortgage guy. I always take my professional friends' advice more closely to heart than that of someone I'm not close to. I know my friends aren't going to hurt me...at least I hope they wouldn't. Good catch there, amigo. I hope it turns out for the best.

01/31/2008 09:34 PM by Andrew Trevino Wilkes-Barre Homes For Sale (TradeMark Realtors Group)


Very impressed Sardi.  It is sometimes challenging when we deal with friends, but we being the best type of friend when we act as a professional through out.  You are a rockstar!

01/31/2008 10:36 PM by Ginger Wilcox, Marin County Realtor (Pacific Union, Marin Real Estate)


It's tough sometimes with a friend.  I know that I am having trouble bringing my self to push a friend of mine on getting a house.  Although I think he would eventually forgive and be glad I gave him the shove, I know him well enough to know that he needs his time. 

That's the advantage of knowing someone that well... we know what can motivate them.   

01/31/2008 10:51 PM by Lane Bailey - REALTOR & Car Guy (Diamond Dwellings Realty)


Good job, Sardi!  Sometimes we need to step back and clear our heads, before we respond.  You sent an excellent email to him -- one that he can read, re-read, and then put his thoughts together and make a decision.  Let us know what he decides!  (It sounds like a no-brainer to me, though).

01/31/2008 10:54 PM by Jeannie Kontis - Lancaster Real Estate, Lancaster PA Homes for Sale (Long & Foster Real Estate, Lancaster PA)


What? You're not a mocha man? lol!  I've been pretty good at treating family and friends as strict clients except when it comes to my husband.  Then I break all the rules and pay for it all day long!

01/31/2008 11:21 PM by Krista Fuchs Pennsylvania, Chester County Realtor (Prudential Fox & Roach)


Absolutely brilliant e-mail.

02/01/2008 12:22 AM by Jon Zolsky (FunCoast Realty LLC)


I do those follow up emails after a conversation....seems we can never do too much to take care of a client....regardless if friend or family... we think in the best interests of our client. Update expected.

02/01/2008 12:45 AM by Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman (RA), e-PRO HAWAII Relocations & HAWAII Real Estate (Century 21 Liberty Homes -Mililani, Hawaii)


Jason, I know how you feel when it comes to friends. Sometimes when dealing with friends we loose sight of the bigger picture.  Great Post..

02/01/2008 06:14 AM by My Favorite Mortgage.net - Matthew J Blum


Hey Jason.. I actually had a hat that I kept at my desk in the years I was in the auto business...I had it stitched to say"Trained Professional" on one side and "Trusted Friend" on the other...My advice was normally the same on both sides, but the act of putting on a hat seemed to help bridge the situation...

I now run into situations where I could use that hat again...Good job on the follow up..I'm sure he was able to follow your logic..it just make sense that way!!  $$

02/01/2008 07:22 AM by Mike Norvell Sr., Developers Capital Realty (Developers Capital Realty, LLC)


Bill - No problem my friend, I always enjoy seeing you around.

Missy - In this case, the appraiser is as local as they get and quite frankly, the best in the Leigh Valley.  Lenders are using the old fine tooth comb with appraisals these days and to me it's a tad too much of an aggressive knee jerk reaction to what has and probably will continue going on.  Worthy borrowers tend to suffer from the mistakes of others.

Dan - I ran one of those as well....we shall see.

Lenn - The money isn't the problem in this case, house values in the neighborhood seem to be.

Marc - Oh, I'm one of the masters of lousy English.  Ain't that a shame:-)

Neal - Thanks for all your support.  You are like the bra I never had:-)

Gary - And the beer couldn't come at a better time......Super Bowl Sunday is on its way!

Carol - Thank you for your kind words.  I think he inherently knows that.

Monika - You are right there.  I will do so...

Rick- I'll take Beast Ice, only the best for Sardi!!!

Andrew - You and me both....amigo:-)

Ginger- Well, I guess you could certainly say I have groupies, lol.

Lane - I've done numerous transactions for friends, this is the first where there were any issues as all.  Nature of the beast...

Hey Kontis, thanks for your nice words!  You have a great weekend Jeannie:-)

Krista - Be nice to your husband dear:-)

Jon - Wow man, thanks.  Come to think of it, I do need an agent...up for the gig?

Sis - Update will occur shortly.

Matt - Thanks man, true be that.

Mike - I want that hat!

 

02/01/2008 10:38 AM by Jason Sardi, Pennsylvania Mortgage Broker (First Choice Equity Group Inc.)


                                                                   *UPDATE*

Jason...

Thanks for the note.

We understand the how this situation will save us over $120,000 in interest, but the additional $78.90 a month is a bit too much for us at this time.  With the addition of mortgage insurance, additional cost of increased home owners insurance, our Lower Saucon tax just went up 33%, and the rising costs of things "now", like fuel and such, our monthly output would be too high to live comfortably.  For now, I must pass.

Keep my file on hand.  We soon get bonuses and raises.  Values in the neighborhood will come back soon.

For now, I think it's best to keep my situation as is, and pay a few hundred bucks when we can, towards the 2nd mortgage.  We'll revisit this as things get better.

 

That was the email I got.  What can I say, you can't win them all.  Hopefully the Market & The Interest Rates are where they need to be when he feels more comfortable in getting something done.  While I personally feel it's best to act now as it is risky to wait and bank on the unknowns, I hope I am wrong for his sake.

02/01/2008 01:01 PM by Jason Sardi, Pennsylvania Mortgage Broker (First Choice Equity Group Inc.)


do want your package sent to office? LOL

Rick

02/01/2008 03:24 PM by Rick Kellow


It's a shame your clients are so short-sighted. But you handled it like the champ that you are :)

02/01/2008 04:36 PM by Portland Oregon Real Estate Broker * Jennifer Bukaty * (RE/MAX equity group, inc.)


Sardi is going to love that I found this :) 

Jason is a true professional.  He kept me in the loop the entire time.

As my reply email stated, that extra $78.90 per month makes the monthly payment too much for us.

Signed,

Jason's Customer referred to in this blog.

02/01/2008 05:40 PM by Jason's Customer


It wasn't a blunder. We all treat our friends differently than a stranger. You did all right. PMI is now tax deductable.

02/01/2008 07:23 PM by Tigard Oregon Real Estate >> Wayne B. Pruner, GRI (Oregon First)


Hi Jason - you handled this just fine, and your friend's reply back, and his comment just above mine, shows you did the right thing.  Good job, my friend!

MWA!
Ann

02/01/2008 07:32 PM by Portsmouth NH Homes Condos - Ann Cummings New Hampshire REALTOR® (RE/MAX Coast to Coast - Portsmouth New Hampshire)


Hey Jason, how soon before the lower Fed rate filters down to the user level.. I was talking to a buddy at Wacovia, and he said they have not updated thier products yet to show the newly discounted rates...

To bad about your bud...I know how precious every deal is right now...Peas

02/01/2008 07:36 PM by Mike Norvell Sr., Developers Capital Realty (Developers Capital Realty, LLC)


Ah...Jason, You didn't get the answer you hoped for, but you kept your friendship, and he thinks your a true professional! : )

Not bad, not bad at all.....

02/01/2008 07:41 PM by Guilford Connecticut Real Estate Agent, Sandra Cummings (William Raveis Real Estate)


Jason, the guy is hardheaded.  You were right and everyone of us, including your friend, know that  less than $100 bucks a month is only a deal breaker because he wants it to be.

02/01/2008 07:56 PM by BILL CHERRY (BILL CHERRY, REALTORS - DALLAS)


What we are doing is paying an extra $200 a month on our principle.  We have already knocked off over 7 years from our loan and just started this last year.  Sometimes that's the best way.  We'll try to increase this amount again soon.  I'd love to not owe on our home.

02/01/2008 08:04 PM by Kay Perry (Classic Realty/GMAC)


                                              Hey Jacobson, I was freaking kidding!:-)

Rick - Beer Packages is are always welcome at our office.  Speaking of which, the next post I write will be entitled...."BEER""Packages."

Jennifer - He's a smart and seasoned guy....he'll be fine....

You....freaking you!  Mr. Customer/Amigo...you've done well for yourself my friend.  While this makes sense, I totally respect where you are coming from on many levels.  I'll be here for ya, you know that.  Now refer this chap some business:-)

Wayne - I don't overstep my bounds, I'm not an accountant.  Yet, you are right.

Ann - MWA back at ya.  He's a cool guy, even though he doesn't listen to me:-)  Hi Mr. Customer, MWA to you too!

Mike - It's all about volume baby!

Sandra - Ahhh shucks, he's just saying that....

Bill - It's his decision...I respect that.  Nobody knows his life better than him.

Kay - That's a hell heck of a point, similiar to my customer's take on things.  For some people, that's the right way to go.

 

02/01/2008 08:45 PM by Jason Sardi, Pennsylvania Mortgage Broker (First Choice Equity Group Inc.)


In order for your friend/client to make an informed decision you had to give him ALL the information. You did your job and you did it well.

02/01/2008 09:06 PM by Robert L. Brown~Grand Rapids Real Estate Flexit Realty, West Michigan (www.mrbrownsellsgr.com)


May if your friend waits a bit the rates will come down and will work out a bit better. hope so

02/01/2008 09:16 PM by Michael Eisenberg, Bellingham Realtor (BuyerTours Realty)


Jason, another well written post. I am always impressed when I read a blog by the great one. And, I have to agree with you in that I am more about the NOW than the taking a chance down the road.

02/01/2008 10:12 PM by Danny Thornton (Home America Mortgage, INC.)


Jason... interesting...  when I deal with friends and family, I am even more forceful in my figures and numbers. I ask them... do you trust me and my knowledge  expertise?  My brother-in-law and I just had this conversation, because I am refinancing them for the 2nd time in just 4 1/2 months..  and I am saving them $152/month. They basically are listening to me after I gave them their break even point, because I know their goals.

In any case, as some have said, it can be different when dealing with friends and family. I guess I take it even more personally and they know it....  but you did come to it and gave him good information...  okay, not sure if I am babbling here....  but what are you doing in at 9 pm on a Friday....

jeff belonger

02/01/2008 10:14 PM by Jeff Belonger -- The FHA Expert.com -- FHA Loans -- FHA mortgages -- Mortgages (Infinity Home Mortgage Company, Inc)


Michael - You never know....

Danny - The Great One?  You've been watching too many 'Rock' Movies I suppose:-)

Jeff Belonger - You always babble man, that's part of your charm:-)

02/01/2008 10:40 PM by Jason Sardi, Pennsylvania Mortgage Broker (First Choice Equity Group Inc.)


Jason,

Hate to say it, but your appraiser should have caught that pending sale in the MLS. That would have saved you both time and aggrevation. Myself, nor any other appraiser I know could possibly dismiss listing and pending sales in good conscience. It appears that's what happened. Sorry to see this played out the way it did. Take care.

Michael

02/02/2008 12:56 AM by Michael Tarabotto (Certified Appraiser) Santa Clarita, San Fernando, Westside (California Appraisal Solutions Corp.)


Jason,
The facts speak loud and clear and putting them in writing for your client was a prime example of taking care of your client.

02/02/2008 05:49 AM by Cynthia Tilghman, Realtor® Onslow County NC Home Specialist (Kingsbridge Realty, Inc)


It's a good lesson about dealing with friends.  I've seen agents lose a listing because they assumed their friend would list with them.  They didn't make the same presentation they would make with another client.  A good reminder.

02/02/2008 09:36 AM by Linda Davis (RE/MAX Realty Group)


Oh how I love war stories!!! Remember when I said one of my faults was not talking straight? This is always a danger when dealing with your buds, as you pointed out. Your e-mail to him was excellent, and far more appreciated than beating around the bush. I think this market has definately taught me how to give bad news and then my recommendation on the best strategy..

 By the way, is it the policy of Cakewalk Mortgage to rhyme their blog headlines??????

 Sale Pending, Praying for Lending

Get Ready to Rumble, Rates Are About to Tumble

Hey, I think I'll go write Big Girls Don't Cry And Lenders Never Lie

02/02/2008 12:05 PM by Janet Guilbault, California Mortgage Expert (RPM Mortgage)


Jason, when it comes to family and friends it's almost better to bend over backwards to be professional and go the extra mile so that they know they have gotten the best representation possible.  Good reminder!

02/02/2008 01:27 PM by Lake Norman Real Estate ~ Diane Aurit (RE/MAX at the Lake)


It's so hard to help friends and family. You do your best but sometimes things change and you look like the bad guy.

02/02/2008 03:16 PM by Christy Powers - Pooler, Savannah Real Estate Agent (Keller Williams Coastal Area Partners)


Good job, the info was laid out well, I'm sure he'll see that

02/02/2008 03:58 PM by Jessica Curtis (Sutton Group Right Way)


If we can't help friends and family in a way that makes us feel good about what we do - no wait!  That's what it's about!  And that's why you're good at what your do.  

02/02/2008 10:15 PM by Patricia Kennedy (Evers & Company)


If we can't help friends and family in a way that makes us feel good about what we do - no wait!  That's what it's about!  And that's why you're good at what your do.  

02/02/2008 10:15 PM by Patricia Kennedy (Evers & Company)


If we can't help friends and family in a way that makes us feel good about what we do - no wait!  That's what it's about!  And that's why you're good at what your do.  

02/02/2008 10:16 PM by Patricia Kennedy (Evers & Company)


Jason,

I can't comment on the other post but I'll tell you I grew up with a group of people and we followed all the doors even though Morrison had already passed...loved the wiskybar! Here...you got an extra comment here for there:)

02/03/2008 07:24 AM by Neal Bloom-Realtor ® Assoc.-CRS-Weston FL (RE/MAX Premier Associates)


Jason- Like Neal I wanted to post on your other one...so am posting here :)  I was pleased to see Andrew's name as someone with beautiful writing...and hopefully one day you will share that prose you worte....if you still believe in the words at that time :)

02/05/2008 10:44 AM by Kathy McGraw ~ Calif Broker (CELLing Realty)


Jason-this comment is on this Post.......friends and family deserve the same Professional Expertise, the problem comes in when they don't want to hear it.  I'm impressed you sent the email, and hopefully your Amigo listens......if this is truly in his best interests :)

02/05/2008 10:48 AM by Kathy McGraw ~ Calif Broker (CELLing Realty)


Michael - Actually, to my knowledge it didn't even hit the MLS until after the appraisal was done.  I think it was just a case of very bad timing.

Cynthia - Sometimes black & white make it easy to understand and fully digest.

Linda - True that.  I won't ever make that mistake again.

Janet - The marketing campaign of Cakewalk Mortgage will set the Industry ablaze.  Just think, our own commercial on next year's Super Bowl!

Diane - Bending over backwards is pretty much status quo at this point, there can be no other way.

Christy - Say hello to the Bad Guy:-)

Jessica - He did, it's not the time for him right now....we'll re-visit down the road.

Patricia - Thank you!  You are so right!

Neal - We have a lot in common my man.

Kathy - Perhaps someday....

Kathy - They do deserve that and I should of treated it the same as I would any other client.

02/05/2008 11:13 AM by Jason Sardi, Pennsylvania Mortgage Broker (First Choice Equity Group Inc.)


now that what I call a sales man....great job....sometimes you have to actually show the client how they are saving money even if they are paying a little more or the same payment but your cutting their rate and their term.....i just had a similar situatiion where their rate was going down by 2.25% and from a 30yr to a 20 yr but their payment was only going down $16 and then when i said you will be saving $88k in interest and then they said where do i sign......

02/06/2008 10:42 AM by Andres Munar Your 24 Hour Mortgage Specialist (The Priority Mortgage Group)


Andres - Thanks Andres!  Good for you, sounds like you did a heck of job for your clients as well.

02/06/2008 10:46 AM by Jason Sardi, Pennsylvania Mortgage Broker (First Choice Equity Group Inc.)


Jason,

It sounds like you are a real professional. Good job in handling the unknowns.

 

Andy 

02/14/2008 11:21 PM by Shelter Insurance® Andy Jones (Shelter Insurance®)


Ok Jason,

Its been 2 weeks.  What did your amigo decide to do?

Palm Springs Mortgage Guy

02/15/2008 06:57 PM by Amerifund Lending Group


Charles - See above, mi amigo commented.  Holding off...

02/15/2008 11:15 PM by Jason Sardi, Pennsylvania Mortgage Broker (First Choice Equity Group Inc.)


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