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Earlier today, Ardell DellaLoggia encouraged "Active Rain" readers to share examples of their role models in her article, "The Russian Tea Room-NYC.  I responded positively to the idea, but admittedly needed a little time to draft a proper tribute.  I was fortunate to have exposure to a number of exemplary figures while I was learning the title business many years ago. 

I believe that the credibility of the every industry has been crafted through the motives and actions of human giants.  These dedicated professionals were, and are, directly responsible for the creation of lofty benchmarks for behavioral and ethical standards.  The heroes of the title industry, past and present, did not earn their reputations because they were skilled settlement officers or marketing experts. [Though they probably were] The legends of the title industry earned their status due to their skills as title examiners paired with an intense passion to act with integrity and compassion.  Their calling, first and foremost, was to make a contribution through service to others.  Not only do I admire the things these people did, I also admire the fact they did not participate in certain types of activities.  Their acts, I believe, are bigger than the industry itself! 

In the early 1990's, I once had the great pleasure of hearing Oscar Beasley speak about the title issues of the day.  It was before there was even a continuing education requirement in the state of Maryland.  Lectures were attended for the sake of gaining knowledge.  Somehow underwriting seminars seemed to be more meaning and substantive before there was a requirement to attend them.  Oscars' presentation was one I have not forgotten.  The man was clearly a consummate professional and had a firm grasp on the dynamics of the title industry.  He spoke like an expert.  He dressed liked an expert.  His overall demeanor was that of an expert.  He was an expert.  I recall him saying "he was unable to give a good definition of notice, but he knew notice when he saw it."  That line has stayed with me since.  Oscar Beasley was claims council for American Title in Santa Ana, CA and considered by many at the time to be the  best legal mind in the business.  He is now deceased.

Ardell was right; we need heroes; and it does us good to talk about them!

 

29 Comments on Heroes, Mentors, Role Models, etc.

My dad is all 3 :)

I've learned alot from him about how to be a man,father,business owner and friend!

Happy New Year Ed!

Scott

01/01/2007 04:51 PM by Oak Valley Mortgage-California Home Loans and Refinancing


Nice tribute Ed and I can see he really touched you by the way you wrote about him.

01/01/2007 05:16 PM by Monika McGillicuddy~NH Real Estate Broker (Prudential Verani Realty)


Ed...You're website blew me away!!! You must have an amazing story to tell. I ordered that DVD...Thanks so much.

Monika 

01/01/2007 05:23 PM by Monika McGillicuddy~NH Real Estate Broker (Prudential Verani Realty)


Scott

Thank you for commenting and paying a short tribute to your dad.  I would love to met him and know more about him.  My own father died unexpectedly when I was a freshman in high school.  I never take my teenage son for granted and consider him a hero for reasons too numerous to touch upon now.  I'm happy that you consider your dad your hero and proud of you as well.  Peace!

Ed Ryb

01/01/2007 05:36 PM by Ed Rybczynski (Rybczynski Consulting)


Ed,

I see great things for you. As I have mentioned before, you have had a very interesting life. It's always good to have a hero (or two). Their voices always stay with us. Thanks for sharing.

01/01/2007 05:46 PM by Karen Hurst ~ Real Estate Broker ~ Warwick ~ Rhode Island (Storm Realty LLC)


Monika

Thanks for the kind comments and for ordering the dvd.  Your critique will be very much appreciated.  Oscar's presentation was impressive, I remember it like it happened yesterday.  I had the great fortune of standing on the shoulders of giants when I was younger.  It's so very important that we contribute by mentoring and coaching members of our respective professions with less seniority.   I'm glad you liked the website, it's the product of a group effort with many creative minds working together.

I'm new to "Active Rain", can I assume a relationship of some type between you and Jay?

Your Friend

Ed Ryb

01/01/2007 05:46 PM by Ed Rybczynski (Rybczynski Consulting)


Kelly

Thank you!  Can I assume that Hawaii is as much fun as it appears to be?

Ed Ryb

01/01/2007 06:00 PM by Ed Rybczynski (Rybczynski Consulting)


Karen

Thank you!  The leadership you demonstate on "Active Rain" is impressive.  I'm certain you're a great realtor and happy to know you.

Ed Ryb

01/01/2007 06:04 PM by Ed Rybczynski (Rybczynski Consulting)


Ed, You are right...it is good to reflect on good role models. I hope that you help others in your quest and I have posted you on my newest blog here on AR as well as on SacramentoRealEstateVoice in order to give you a voice to help others. Welcome to Active Rain.

01/01/2007 07:28 PM by Sacramento Real Estate and Luxury Homes, Assoc. Real Estate Broker,Gena Riede (Remax Gold, Assoc Broker)


Ed,

I'm Jay's better half<gg>...we're married and work together as a team. The poor guy!!!

Monika

 

01/01/2007 07:30 PM by Monika McGillicuddy~REALTORĀ®~ N.H. Real Estate Broker & Trainer (Prudential Verani Realty/Hampstead)


Good role models are worth their weight in gold!  Multiple ones are hard to come by in a lifetime....

01/01/2007 07:36 PM by Kaushik Sirkar (Call Realty, Inc.)


Ed, thank you for sharing. I wrote this post yesterday about one of my role models, my grandmother

01/01/2007 07:40 PM by Jeff Turner (Real Estate Shows)


Kaushik

Thank you for commenting; it's greatly appreciated.

 Ed Ryb

01/01/2007 07:48 PM by Ed Rybczynski (Rybczynski Consulting)


Jeff

I read your post yesterday and missed the fact it was a tribute to your grandmother.  I love the metaphor about 85 years of knowledge in a tomato garden.  Thank you for commenting on the human element.  I have a post featured on Flipping Frenzy that expresses many of my views on the human condition vs technology.  Please take a minute to read it and share your comments if you can.  I'd be interested to hear your perspective.

Ed Ryb

01/01/2007 07:52 PM by Ed Rybczynski (Rybczynski Consulting)


I must be naive Ed...I just read your flipping Frenzy and left a comment. Pretty distressing.

 

01/01/2007 09:35 PM by Monika McGillicuddy~REALTORĀ®~ N.H. Real Estate Broker & Trainer (Prudential Verani Realty/Hampstead)


Ed,

Great tribuet - you can definately make a guy feel all warm and fuzzy inside.

Great Job !

Have a Blessed Day,

John Occhi, Hemet REALTOR
www.JohnOcchi.com

01/01/2007 09:39 PM by John Occhi Hemet CA Real Estate (Allison James Estate and Homes)


Ed, I am with Scott G on this one.  I definitely give credit to my father.  If it wasn't for him, I wouldn't be in the mortgage business that I have come to fall in love with.  I refuse to do anything else, ever again.  Thanks Dad!  Nice blog!  Happy New Year!

01/01/2007 10:53 PM by Nima Rezvan (Mortgage Broker)


Ed,

I'm really glad that Turner got turned over to my blog by seeing his "mug" and mentioned this post.  There are many truly great people out there that deserve a few words from us now and then.  I have so many I could write about one a day until I die.  We are all very lucky to have met them, one and all.

01/01/2007 11:19 PM by ARDELL DellaLoggia (Coldwell Banker Bain)


Ed:  thank you for sharing your story!  Role models form who we are and it is great to see where others come from!

01/01/2007 11:26 PM by Renee Burrows - Las Vegas NV Real Estate (Nevada Realty Solutions)


Ed, I've bookmarked this so I can go back and read your posts on flipping frenz. It looks like there are five there. I will give them all a read and come back with some comments! Thanks...

01/02/2007 01:35 AM by Jeff Turner (Real Estate Shows)


Ed your story is most compelling.  Congrats to you for turning things around and coming out to make a difference.  We need more crusaders like you in the industry.  Glad to welcome you to Active Rain.  I hope you post often.

kk

01/02/2007 05:54 AM by Kristal Kraft ~Denver Real Estate~303-589-2022 (The Berkshire Group Realtors)


Role Models can inspire! THanks for your thoughts! If you know of any women you'd like to honor, there is a great site, www.inspiringwomen.com that allows you to nominate an inspiring woman and make a $10 donation to CARE! Here's to a great 2007!!!

01/02/2007 07:17 AM by Joeann Fossland, Master Certified Coach (Advantage Solutions Group)


Great post and great website / blogsite!  Tony just ordered the DVD - looking forward to checking it out completely!

01/02/2007 09:30 AM by Suzanne Marriott, Associate Broker, CLHMS, e-PRO (Keller Williams Realty Professional Partners)


Passion is the key word every mentor or role model we have followed has had it! 

01/02/2007 10:33 AM by Teri Isner GRI, CRS, CIPS (Keller Williams Celebration)


Wonderful post.  Thanks for taking the time to share it with us.  And...


Welcome to the puddle! 

01/02/2007 10:44 AM by joanne Douglas (Terrie O'Connor Realtors)


Heroes in real estate? I'll give you "role models," but I honestly can't think of heroics that I would want to emulate.

This is a sales business, not a calling. Some of us are good at it and some of us are not. But, as a broker and coach, I would discourage agents from making more of it than it is. It's a job. I'm not Tarzan or Superman or Henry Kissinger.

01/02/2007 02:20 PM by Ryan Taylor Homes


Ed,

I had NO IDEA until Dustin at RCG just posted about you.  Unbelievable stuff.  You are definitely going on my next questionnaire that says "if you could have lunch with anyone...who would it be?"

01/05/2007 10:27 PM by ARDELL DellaLoggia (Coldwell Banker Bain)


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