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 Part 1 – September 11, 2001 – The story of my day and a tribute

Part 2 – (How September 11th launched my real estate career)

Where were you on September 11th? 

Were you at home?  Were you at work?  Were you near your loved ones?  Did you have people close to you who died on that dreadful day?

Tomorrow, as you know, we commemorate as a nation, the six year anniversary of September 11, 2001.

Where were you on 9/11?

I want to share with Active Rain, my personal story of September 11, 2001.

 

 

 

 

At the time, I was not yet in real estate, and little did I know that I would be just 5 months later.  On September 11, 2001, I was working as an attorney at a small law firm in Washington, D.C. (see The Difference Between Realtors & Lawyers).  Additionally, I was highly anticipating my upcoming wedding on September 30, 2001, which my wife and I had been steadily planning since we got engaged 10 months earlier.

That Tuesday morning, I woke up as usual, but instead of taking the Metrobus from my home in Arlington, Virginia to the Pentagon transfer to the metrorail, I opted to drive into town.  I was supposed to drive out to Warrenton, Virginia that evening to testify at a town meeting regarding zoning ordinances and the building of an unwanted large parking lot in a friend’s neighborhood.

Well, I get into work early that morning around 8:15 or so and settle in to start working on a legal brief.  After the first plane hit the World Trade Center, I got a call from my soon-to-be wife, Deborah.  At that point, we did not have the full story – was it a big plane, a small plane, what was the damage?

 

 

Of all places, Deborah had actually heard the news on the Howard Stern radio show upon waking up to the clockradio.  Who knows what to believe when the words are coming out of the mouth of the man who invented the term “Shock Jocks!?”  Deborah said “Sorry to ruin your day, just wanted to let you know.”  

 

 Shortly thereafter, she called back and informed me of the second plane.  At this point, our small office was in a frenzy.  Our office was located at 1500 K Street, NW, Washington, D.C.  For those of you unfamiliar with the D.C. area – we were 2 blocks from The White House.

 

 

 

Next thing you know, my Dad was calling from Florida and all he said was “Brian, They’ve Hit the Pentagon!!!”  He added “You can’t get on the internet, do you have a t.v.?”  Deborah called and confirmed the Pentagon hit.  It was true we couldn’t get an internet connection – cell phones were sporadic. 

 The attorneys in the office were meeting to decide what to do.  I didn’t join them – I knew I didn’t need to decide by committee.  I was leaving – getting home – and FAST!  I was getting married in less than 3 weeks and our country was now at WAR!

I climbed the stairs to the roof of our office building in downtown D.C. and saw a huge smokebomb in the sky above the Pentagon.  I was not waiting around to see if The White House was the next target.  My Mom called while I was on the roof to shout “Get out of D.C. now.”

Now to formulate a plan for leaving the city.  I stepped out onto the street and saw the biggest traffic jam of cars I had ever seen trying to vacate downtown D.C. and knew that I had no chance of getting home in a hurry by driving.  I made a split second decision to leave my car in the underground garage.  I thought about staying in a hotel in the District but thought D.C. might be the next target and hotels might jack up their rates for the night. So, it was time to start walking!

As you recall, 9/11/01 was a blue sky day about 90 degrees on the East Coast (much like the weather this week here in D.C.).  I was wearing full lawyer uniform – suit, tie, dress shoes (which by the way is not always necessary these days in real estate).  I started walking and walk I did, along with what seemed like millions of cubicle denizens throughout the town.

I walked from 15th and K, down to Georgetown and crossed the Key Bridge into Rosslyn (an area of Arlington, Virginia) staring in horror with the masses at the smoke and fire coming from the Pentagon in the near distance.  By this time, I was dripping sweat, and frantically trying to get a cell signal to get through to my loved ones.  After crossing into Arlington and after dozens of attempts, I finally reached my mother:

             “Hi Mom!”

            “Are you okay?”

             “Yes, Thank God, I’m alright”

“Where are you?”          

“I’m in Arlington.  I just walked across the bridge and saw the smoke from the Pentagon.  I’m walking home.”

Like any good mother, she asked “Are you alone?”

After looking around, I responded,No Mom, I’m with about 30,000 of my best friends

I continued walking westerly through the neighborhoods of Arlington: Rosslyn, Courthouse, Clarendon, and Ballston as the marching crowds thinned and more emergency responder vehicles appeared.

At last, I rested a bit in a coffee shop in Virginia Square, now called Murky Coffee, where I caught a glimpse for the first time of what had happened.  I shed tears when I saw the truth and the enormity of what had occurred.  My eyes could not blink as I tearfully witnessed the Twin Towers collapsing on the small coffee shop television. 

 But I still had miles to go.  I passed Ballston Mall and turned South onto Glebe Road to head home.  In the air, I heard F-14s stream by patrolling the Northern Virginia sky.  I had never seen anything like this in my life.  Some passerby had no idea what was happening – I told him and he was in shock!  Reaching a pay phone, I called Deborah, my fiancée, finally.  I’m okay.  I’ll be home soon.

Several out of town friends called me as my cell signal returned and we chatted about the morning’s events.  I couldn’t wait to get home and see it for myself.  I spoke with my sister, the best man for my wedding, my ushers.

At home in Shirlington, I took off my suit, collapsed on the couch and flicked on the t.v. set and could not believe my eyes as I watched the live coverage throughout the rest of 9/11.

Luckily, nobody I knew was injured or killed in the tragic terrorist attacks of September 11th.

 

 

 

I went to work the next day.  Got married 3 weeks later.  Left the law firm after returning from my honeymoon and started on the path towards a real estate career.

Part 2:  How September 11th launched my real estate career.

Thanks for reading my long story… I've had tears in my eyes as I write.  I hope it touches you in some way.

 

 

Please take some time to commemorate September 11th tomorrow:

  •   Take some moments of silence or time to pray.
  •    Thank a fireman or police officer for facing the harsh duties of their jobs everyday.
  •   Shake the hand of a Marine or other serviceman or woman and thank them for their service and acknowledge their sacrifices. 
  •   Call your mother. 
  •   Hug your child.  
  •   Do something to make a difference.

Where were you 6 years ago on 9/11?


 

37 Comments on Where Were You on September 11th? (or how September 11th launched my real estate career) - Part 1 of 2

I'm sitting here crying, reliving the horror of that day.  I have a client who was in the pentagon building when the plane hit it, fortunately he was in another wing of of building than the one that was hit.  I was at home preparing to travel to CA to my mother-in-law's funeral (she died on 9-9-01).  The apathy that has grown among the people here is making us a good target for another attack :(

09/10/2007 06:15 PM by Mary Warren (Referring Agent)


Brian, that was a very nice post. I am curious how you went from law to real estate though.

Sean Allen

09/10/2007 06:22 PM by International Financing Solutions


MARY:  Thanks for your comments.  9/11 is a very emotional day.  I remember last year listening to some radio broadcasts and I had to pull over the car b/c it was too much to be able to concentrate on driving and listen to the tributes and remembrances.  Thank goodness your client was not harmed.  I agree with you about people's apathy.  We must never forget and never let the memories of 9/11 fade or else.

09/10/2007 06:59 PM by Brian Block -- Northern Virginia & D.C. Real Estate (RE/MAX Allegiance)


Brian, Sad story of course, but your experience was well told. Can't wait for part 2. Thanks for the tribute to the heroes of 9/11. 

09/10/2007 07:00 PM by RolandoTheRealtor, RE/MAX agent in Frisco/Keystone/Breckenridge, Colorado (RE/MAX Properties of the Summit, Frisco, Colorado)


SEAN:  Thanks for your comments.  Stay tuned for part 2 tomorrow.

09/10/2007 07:03 PM by Brian Block -- Northern Virginia & D.C. Real Estate (RE/MAX Allegiance)


ROLANDO:  Thanks for your comments.  I'll be posting part 2 sometime tomorrow.  I pass by the Pentagon almost every day, so it is a constant reminder of the heroes of 9/11 and the importance of continued vigilance and dedication to freedom.

09/10/2007 07:15 PM by Brian Block -- Northern Virginia & D.C. Real Estate (RE/MAX Allegiance)


Brian, thank you for sharing your story. 9/11 was such a different experience for me, here in Oregon, with no family or friends on the east coast. I appreciate being able to read your experience. And thankfully you are o.k. and were able to get married on your scheduled date. I'm sure it was very emotional. As a side note, I thought Sean Allen's comment about the transition from law to real estate was interesting. I was going to the University of Oregon working toward a law degree prior to becoming a real estate broker. I think that the two professions go together quite nicely!

09/10/2007 07:44 PM by . . (no thanks)


BRIDGET:  Thanks for your comments.  It definitely was and continues to be an emotional time.  We're looking forward to celebrating our 6 year wedding anniversary later this month.  Fortunately, 9/11 didn't change our wedding plans, though it did change our honeymoon plans -- we canceled Greece and drove up to Montreal and Quebec City (which was wonderful).  I do think law and real estate go together quite well, and while I don't really practice law any more, it certainly is helpful in real estate.  I hope you'll stick around to read Part 2.

09/10/2007 07:56 PM by Brian Block -- Northern Virginia & D.C. Real Estate (RE/MAX Allegiance)


I won't bore you with my long details...  I was there and I am here today to speak of it.    I wrote about it in my Legacy contest post "My Legacy... and its growth, wings.... and flight"  

It is a day I will never forget..... much like yourself... having it changed us forever.  Thanks for sharing your story and  thank you for be safe that day and making it home to your family.  

09/10/2007 08:13 PM by Desiree Daniels New Jersey Real Estate (609) 448-2222 (RE/MAX Tri County)


Wow...that was a very touching reflection...thanks for sharing it.  I was in Basking Ridge NJ at the time (about 30 miles away from NYC).  Strangest memory I have is that we could smell it from where we were.  Had to take all back roads to get home (but at least we could drive).  One co-worker lost her husband, many other co-workers lost friends and neighbors.  It seemed like someone was headed to a funeral every day for weeks. 

09/10/2007 08:19 PM by Susan Smith, Rooms That Work (Rooms That Work)


DESIREE:  Thanks for reading and commenting on my post.  I will read your Legacy contest post as well.  I don't think anyone will ever forget where they were or what they did on September 11th.  Just like my parents and some AR members remember the Kennedy assassination.  

09/10/2007 09:22 PM by Brian Block -- Northern Virginia & D.C. Real Estate (RE/MAX Allegiance)


Brian, I have been watching a lot of that on tv this evening and the weight of my heart feels almost as heavy as it did the day it happened.  I remember 4 questions I asked that day. 

1.  Are you listening to me?  The question I asked my husband while I was mindlessly chattering while he was trying to pay attention to the radio explaining the first building had been hit.

2.  Do you think it was on purpose?  Obviously before the second building had been hit.

3.  Do you think those buildings can withstand the damage or do you think they'll collapse?

4.  Do you think we'll ever stop crying on this day?

After 6 years I know the answers to all 4 questions.

1.  NO, shut up a minute.

2.  duh

3. duh

4.  No, we will always have the heaviest hearts and some day those $#@* who did it will burn in hell.

09/10/2007 09:25 PM by Shannon Lefevre Naples, Florida CRS (John R. Wood REALTORS Inc.)


SUSAN:  Thanks for your comments.  It took a lot of energy and emotion to write this post.  The memories of September 11th still are as vivid as yesterday.  My wedding guests 3 weeks later were staying in Pentagon City, just blocks away from the Pentagon.  We lived 3 miles south of the Pentagon at the time, and for weeks transportation to and from D.C. was a mess since they closed the Pentagon metro stop and bus terminal for obvious reasons.  It must have been tough for you to have to console all of your grieving co-workers.

09/10/2007 09:36 PM by Brian Block -- Northern Virginia & D.C. Real Estate (RE/MAX Allegiance)


Wow - great post Brian - definitely a 5!  Looking forward to part II!

I was getting ready for work when my in-laws called and told us to turn on the TV.  Like all of us, I will never forget that day.

09/10/2007 09:58 PM by Benchmark Mortgage of Louisiana


SHANNON:  Thanks for your comments.  I think most Americans asked those same questions.  Many of those $#@* are already roasting and are probably quite crispy by now -- the rest are heading that way.

09/10/2007 09:58 PM by Brian Block -- Northern Virginia & D.C. Real Estate (RE/MAX Allegiance)


Brian-

Thank you for sharing your story.  That was a LONG walk!  I was living in Florida and was home that day - just turning on CNN as the 2nd plane hit.  As I sat there dumbfounded THEN I realized my father who lived in Boston flew to the west coast 2 times a month!  I was in a panic when I heard that two of the flights were out of Boston.  With no cell or home phone working - I was able to get an email through to him.  It was his week NOT traveling - THANK GOD.

I will never forget that day.

09/10/2007 09:59 PM by James Downing - REALTOR® - Washington DC Real Estate (Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage)


GARRETH:  Thanks for reading, commenting and rating my post a 5!  Part II is already written, just have to add the pictures, formatting and post it up tomorrow.  Most Americans were glued to the t.v. on 9/11.  

09/10/2007 10:14 PM by Brian Block -- Northern Virginia & D.C. Real Estate (RE/MAX Allegiance)


JAMES:  Thanks for your comments.  Yes, it was a very long walk -- about 9 miles in the heat and business suit -- but that is very little sacrifice compared to what so many others suffered on 9/11.  You must of really panicked when you thought that you father might have been traveling from Boston.

09/11/2007 06:03 AM by Brian Block -- Northern Virginia & D.C. Real Estate (RE/MAX Allegiance)


BRIAN:  This was a very tough post to read.  As I wrote mine 9/11 post this morning, I couldn't help but get emotional thinking back to that day.  I can recall the most vivid memories as if I had just lived it yesterday.  The one thing that you brought up that I forgot about was the F-16's rocking my building as they flew overhead.  I wasn't one of the walkers, but I know many people that literally walked for over 5 hours to get to where they were going.  I hope that everyone reads all of the 9/11 posts that come out today and shares their thoughts, or at the very least, reflects on what this day means to us as Americans.  I flagged this for a feature, featured it on Active Rain Addicts, and gave it a 5.

09/11/2007 08:40 AM by Adam Waldman - Long Island REALTOR® (RE/MAX Best)


ADAM:  Thanks for reading.  It was a tough post to write as well, though I pretty much wrote it the way I tell it and like most, I have told this story about 9/11 to so many people, too many times over the years.  It is truly very emotional.  Before 9/11 we never had the fighter jets in the air; now it is all too frequent an occurrence in the D.C. area (any threat, during big events like State of the Union speech, inauguration, etc.).  Thanks for flagging the post and rating it 5 -- I appreciate that very much.

09/11/2007 09:18 AM by Brian Block -- Northern Virginia & D.C. Real Estate (RE/MAX Allegiance)


It was a long time ago. I was at Nortel Networks in RTP, NC.  We had a three story TV with the vision of what was happening. It changed my perception about what I was doing in life.  It's too short and I needed to travel less and spend more time w/my family.  I made the changes. It was tough but I don't think I could have done it without the inspiration of 9/11

09/11/2007 08:54 PM by Tracy Santrock-Cary NC Real Estate Blog (Fonville Morisey)


Brian - This was a terrific, heartfelt post.  Thanks for sharing your memories and emotions from that terrible day.  Great wedding photo, by the way!  I am going to read part 2 now.

09/11/2007 09:35 PM by Jason Crouch, Broker - Austin Texas Real Estate (Austin Texas Homes, LLC)


TRACY:  I think 9/11 caused many people to rethink their lives and their priorities.  Many people realized that day the importance of family, friends, safety, freedom, and living in the U.S.A.  And how unimportant and trivial other things are.  Thanks for your comments.

09/11/2007 10:22 PM by Brian Block -- Northern Virginia & D.C. Real Estate (RE/MAX Allegiance)


JASON:  Thanks for your comments.  It was very cathartic to write this post and to share the memories of 9/11.  Thanks for the compliments on our wedding photo.  Never having seen my wife's gown before the wedding, I was shocked when wearing white tails, I saw all the bridesmaids wearing white and thought to myself "If we're all wearing white, what will Deborah be wearing."  Well, when she showed up in this gold princess gown, I was in awe.  Thanks for your comments.

09/11/2007 10:27 PM by Brian Block -- Northern Virginia & D.C. Real Estate (RE/MAX Allegiance)


Brian - That is a great story.  It looks like you had quite a day!

09/11/2007 10:34 PM by Jason Crouch, Broker - Austin Texas Real Estate (Austin Texas Homes, LLC)


Couldn't read this yesterday because I was out of town, but yes - I remember.  I was safe at home, but my husband was in a Crystal City high-rise.  My son was on a rooftop in Hoboken, NJ with a full view of both hits on the Twin Towers, hysterical until he confirmed later that day that his wife - who had flown out that morning - was not on one of those planes.  One of them had departed the same airport about the same time.  Thanks fo sharing, and now I'm going to go read your Part 2.  

09/12/2007 05:58 PM by Margaret Woda, Crofton Maryland Real Estate (Long & Foster REALTORS)


MARGARET:  Thanks for reading my personal story of 9/11.  I can imagine how hysterical your son must have been and you too worrying about him and your daughter-in-law.  I'm glad that everyone was safe.

09/12/2007 09:08 PM by Brian Block -- Northern Virginia & D.C. Real Estate (RE/MAX Allegiance)


Brian, what a great post. I'm sorry I missed it the first time.  Thank you for sharing this intensely personal journey.

I remember everything so vividly, as you do.  I was between jobs (or 'funemployed') and just blown away with fear and wonder.

Can you believe it's been only 6 years?  Can you believe it was just 6 years ago?

It seems so close and so far away.

09/20/2007 01:42 PM by Hemet Home Loan Guy, Joey Aszterbaum (Patrion Mortgage)


Brian ~ I missed this original post too. 9/11 did launch my career in real estate too. I had 9/11 off (I was a letter carrier) and was in Lowe's with my 3 year old son buying mini blinds. The Lowe's is located 1 mile north of the airport. We heard plane after plane after plane roaring overhead. I asked the clerks at Lowe's what was going on with the planes, but no one knew yet. I had an incredibly bad feeling and got home as quickly as I could. To make a long story short, I decided that I wanted to live my life with no regrets. I became a Realtor later that month.

09/20/2007 04:06 PM by Melissa Schnieders (RE/MAX Premier)


JOEY: Thanks for your comments.  It is a hard day to ever forget.  Despite the pain of remembering every moment in detail, it is not a day that I wish to forget.  It is hard to believe it is just 6 years ago!

09/20/2007 06:36 PM by Brian Block -- Northern Virginia & D.C. Real Estate (RE/MAX Allegiance)


MELISSA:  Thanks for your comments.  I knew I wasn't the only one that got into real estate right after 9/11!  I am glad that you decided to live your life without regrets -- that's the best way to live it.  I'm sure that you are enjoying your decision and your success in real estate.

09/20/2007 06:37 PM by Brian Block -- Northern Virginia & D.C. Real Estate (RE/MAX Allegiance)


CHRISTOPHER:  Thanks for your comments.  I can tell that you feel very passionately about this country and this subject.  So do I.  If you want to continue this conversation privately offline, I'd be happy too as I feel I share your convictions.  However, I don't wish to turn this blog post into a political forum.

09/20/2007 11:57 PM by Brian Block -- Northern Virginia & D.C. Real Estate (RE/MAX Allegiance)


Brian-I know that this was a post from a month ago, but taken here by a link on your other blog, I have found myself very grateful to have the opportunity to read your story.  9/11 will never and should never be forgotten by anybody.  What a painful experience it was for the whole country and the image you gave of your personal experience put us all there.  You wrote this, giving us all a piece of your heart and I'm certainly glad for you and your family that you made it through safely.  That picture of you and your wife is just beautiful. Thank you for sharing your story with us. 

10/16/2007 08:43 PM by Julie Neerings~Lifting Hearts ♥ Building Dreams~Utah REALTOR® (Keller Williams Salt Lake City)


JULIE:  Thanks for commenting on this post.  Of course, I was reminded again of my experiences that day (living in the D.C. area, I pretty much think of 9/11 just about every day as I drive past the Pentagon) with my conversation tonight with the potential client who called.  It certainly was a trying time for everyone in our nation and it was indeed scary to be so close to everything that happened.  Thanks for your compliments on the picture of me and my wife.

10/16/2007 10:24 PM by Brian Block -- Northern Virginia & D.C. Real Estate (RE/MAX Allegiance)


Brian, this was quite moving to read.  It's one thing to see people on TV, but your account here really brought perspective in a vivid way.  Looking back, it was the grace of God that it was not worse.  It's hard to imagine the kind of confusion and chaos that happens during a time like what was experienced that day.

02/06/2008 05:50 PM by Lola Audu~Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI Real Estate


LOLA:  I'm glad that you got to read this post even if it's a few month later.  As is the case with most Americans, I'll certainly never forget 9/11.  Thankfully, all of my family, friends, colleagues, and I were safe.

02/07/2008 09:15 PM by Brian Block -- Northern Virginia & D.C. Real Estate (RE/MAX Allegiance)


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