Are you trying to figure out if your www.realtorname.com is a waste of time since you've been on AR?  Are you trying to figure out how to juggle both your AR and your other website so neither is neglected?  Are you addicted to AR and your other website is already neglected?  I've posted how to syndicate your AR blog if you'd like to try that...see this post: http://activerain.com/blogsview/181875/Syndicating-Your-AR-Blog   but if you don't want to do that, I'd suggest scrapping your other site and redirecting the url to your AR Blog. This would be useful if your current site is just a basic static site with no IDX integrated or no other real bells or whistles. You can easily redirect your url to be www.activerain.com/rondelw for example. That's my blog. It's real simple and effect so if anyone ever types in www.rondelw.com for example, it would take them to my AR blog...I don't have that set up so don't try it.  =) But that's how it works. 

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